The material in seddit has been extremely influential in enabling to have many relationships and many different kinds of relationships with women. One advice often given here is to read body language a lot more than what women are actually saying verbally. Now, I want to describe real life examples here, since when I was new to this, I just did not believe this could work.

  1. Girl I meet at coffeeshop, get her number. Then meet up for a show, then we go to a bar. We had a great time at the show, I've been kino'ing the fuck out her (back rub, sitting in close proximity etc.) But she has already told me she is seeing someone in another city, which is far away. So we're at the bar, and we're having the best conversation. I suggest a more private booth, and she agrees. We get drinks, sit there, and then she says, "Listen, I've told you before. I am seeing a guy in NYC. He is visiting me in a couple of weeks. So I'm sorry but we can't have a relationship" (I'm paraphrasing here, since I can't remember the exact words). But then she we have this amazing eye contact, we're sitting super close to each other. In reply, I lean in, gently pull her head in with one hand, and kiss her. We make out for a while and then leave the bar for her home. No mention of the other guy whatsoever after that.

  2. A girl I chatted up in a bar earlier in the week comes to an event I invite her to. Again, we have a lot of fun, make out, take her home. All the way, she keeps saying, "We're not having sex tonight!". And I keep repeating something like "I don't sleep with a person I just met. I have a couch.". We get back to my place, and then she repeats that, and I repeat my line, but don't mention the couch. We makeout on my bed for a while, while I keep escalating, but there's LMR. I know this routine, so I back out everytime she says stop, but keep trying it again. After a while, I take off all my clothes and turn off the light. Well...we had sex.

So my question I guess is really: don't women feel that contradiction between what they say and what they end up doing? Don't they remember what they just said? I kinda understand the need for this I guess: weirdly enough, it made it like a challenge and it was a lot more fun than knowing exactly what was gonna happen haha. But I'm just curious how this kind of contradiction plays out in women's minds, while my brain is going crazy trying to make me tell them what just happened but my dick makes me keep my mouth shut.