Guys who are really getting into this whole meeting women thing... when you start to get results, it can be very enticing. Boom suddenly you've got some options, where previously you had no options. It's natural to form attachments... when you're having sex and then kissing and cuddling... it's really easy to get attached to a girl.

Long story short, I'm accidentally forming an attachment to the wrong girl. I thought about it a little bit... and realized why: I'm not connecting with my good friends and family nearly enough. If I had been, I would've instantly known that this girl was wrong for me.

Stay close to your quality people! Think about your closest family member... your best friend, your favorite group of people... feel the joy of knowing them and having them in your life. When you can feel the abundance of quality people in your life... then you'll know which girls are great to spend time with. And you'll naturally get better at PU while keeping it in balance with the other important things in your life.