So recently me and my friends were out. It’s a boy and a girl (i’m 20 and they’re 25). I’ve been friends with the guy for like three weeks and i just met the girl that night through mutual friends. My guy friend brought up the question “what did you think when you first met him?” So we all took turns answering. He said i was mysterious, and she said i was intimidating at first, then when she got to know me i was super fun, open, and friendly. The thing is i’ve been called mysterious so many times by many different people, friends and strangers. I’m not saying this to be cocky but i would assume i’m above average level of attractive, based on a number of factors including how people respond to me and what people have told me. But generally i’m asking is it a good or bad thing to be called mysterious and intimidating. And what could it mean? I’m naturally introverted so it takes me a while to open up to people but i’m always very kind and nice. I’m a woman by the way.