Is getting texts and initiation from women considered "abundance"?

TheKrankster · 2020-09-29T09:13:20+00:00

Personally my definition of having abundance is when you don't have to fake it anymore and when you can look yourself in the mirror and truly say that you have girls in your life that you can smash/date/or just be friends with. However everyone is different and in order to to know what abundance is you have to know what your goals in seduction are. For example if you only want to have sex with women, then by definition abundance for you will be if you can comfortably say to yourself that you do have girls who you can hit up/find for sex without too much difficulty.

Urgekiller · 2020-09-29T17:40:16+00:00

Abundance isn't something you possess absolutely. It's not like an iphone 10 in your pocket or ford mustang in your garage, which could be certified that you either have them or not. No.

It's a state of mind and it depends only on your perception if you see yourself abundant or not. One can feel abundant texting two girls from tinder and the other could have regular sex with three gals and still be uncertain.

For me it starts from the moment you have some good streak when it comes to dating and you know that eg for the last 3 months you've got 8 dates and thus you are completely capable of doing it again and again, even if you did not see anyone in the last three weeks or so.

Alternatively, coming back to your question, i would consider only girls you have some kind of real connection with to be the base of your abundance mentality. In this case, mere bullshiting through dating apps without any concret is nothing to build you base on. Meeting them, and even holding hands, is.

myevilalt · 2020-09-29T22:14:20+00:00

Abundance is a mindset of quiet confidence, not a thing. All it means is that you’re not worried about where/when your next lay is coming from because you’re confident that you can get it easily enough. You won’t be the type to flip out over a rejection because your ego isn’t dependent on some random’s approval.

It has nothing to do with your current sex life. A secure, capable seducer who is getting back into the game after a break will still be able to reap the benefits of abundance mentality, though his game might be rusty. Conversely, it’s possible to be sleeping with multiple women and still have a scarcity mentality, though I’ve only ever seen extremely good-looking guys be able to pull it off, and rarely at that. A scarcity mindset is THAT unattractive and easy to spot.

olive2party · 2020-09-29T06:34:51+00:00

Why r u listening to this pop psych bullshit. I'm a behaviorist. Control the environment u manipulate ppl. Use the tried and true method of hitting on women who have imbibed alcohol. Scoring goes up. You can also smash more if you lower your standards and or bang a bunch of fat chicks.

Title	Is getting texts and initiation from women considered "abundance"?
Author	olympiad23
Upvotes	7
Comments	14
Date	September 29, 2020 6:28 AM UTC (5 years ago)
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