Is going for a lunch a bad idea for a first date?

youlovethisish · 2014-11-03T20:28:20+00:00

It's really all about how you handle it. It's a very good way to test your day game, and no one will have to hide behind the "I was drunk" excuse. Now, if you treat it as a business lunch, you're not gonna get very far. You have to escalate... but in spite of the fact that the vibe isn't predisposed to be as sexually charged as it is in the nighttime.

reckoncile1987 · 2014-11-03T21:32:04+00:00

It would be good to include some ice cream cones with that meal on the first date, use your head there for some seduction....

gexxx007 · 2014-11-03T23:25:09+00:00

Lunch is ok as long as dessert is back at your place.

ThatSpecialPlace · 2014-11-04T14:12:15+00:00

The only thing that puts you in the friendzone is your lack of showing your intentions early enough.

But my theory is that as long as the date is face to face, it's fine. Lunch, coffee, walks, drinks, etc. are all okay.

Movies, sports games, concerts (Even though it breaks my heart to list them), etc. are not very good for more intimate dates. They're fine if you're already in an established relationship.

TheRustyPineapple · 2014-11-03T20:21:48+00:00

You should post this in /r/askseddit, that's what it's made for.

Title	Is going for a lunch a bad idea for a first date?
Author	godstriker8
Upvotes	1
Comments	5
Date	November 3, 2014 7:53 PM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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