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[–]DaygameMission 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
The question is... ... compared to what? The following article goes into more depth on the subject of online game
https://daygamersbible.wordpress.com/2018/05/07/why-online-game-doesnt-work-for-guys/
The reality is online game is heavily stacked in favor of girls and that will only get worse as it becomes more and more socially acceptable. We have to find a better way to even the odds. I would suggest trying daygame before handing over money to receive winks from desperate 50 year old women, or spending time being dicked around by attention seeking girls who are only doing online dating for the instant validation.
[–]Aeon199 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Well then, do you really have be a male-model or (alternatively) Mr. Moneybags to have any chance to meet women online?
Say it ain't so, bro.
[–]DaygameMission 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
LOL The funny thing is I've seen a male model struggling with online game https://daygamersbible.wordpress.com/2018/05/04/instagram-game-does-not-exist/ Of course you can get laid with online game, but is it efficacious?
There was a dating site which allowed you to check men and women online on it. The ratio was 11-1. Why would you want to take on those odds? Just imagine how picky and difficult you would be if you had a ratio of 11-1 in your favor, and 100s of then were messaging you every day.
Now compare this with a one-on-one with a daygame stop.
[–]Aeon199 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
LOL The funny thing is I've seen a male model struggling with online game
The link is too 3rd-hand to make that conclusion. The author doesn't seem to even know the male model he's talking about.
That said, I do get your point.
I'm not sure if you're a daygame coach or not (if you are, your bias taints things a little.)
AND I would preface this by saying "if I was man enough, daygame is what I would do." I don't want night-game or online game, I don't even want social circle game. SO if it was up to me, I would go out and approach.
THAT SAID, a lot of folks here lately have explained that daygame is the hardest, or that you have to be (either of 2 options) really good looking, OR very socially smooth.
Where does that leave a guy who is average looking (good to SOME women here and there, "meh" to the vast majority) and socially awkward due to Asperger's/ADD.
It looks like ridiculous hard mode, to me. It looks like it's reasonable to expect something like a 1000 approach minimum, before one booty, etc.
That's why I don't push myself to go out there. I don't want to creep out so many women and expect rejection, to go on endlessly.
[–]DaygameMission 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Thanks for the fair comments! I'm not a daygame coach so that's beside the point.
There's nothing stopping an average guy doing daygame BTW. However, I have a genuine and sincere question for you, or maybe for other guys who feel socially awkward.
Can you recognize the signs/markers of a girl feels socially awkward herself?The way she dresses, moves, walks etc Can you imagine the sorts of places she might hang out during the day?
My inference is that, if you can do these things, then maybe you will connect easily and immediately with this type of girl? So why not adapt a daygame model suited to this type of girl/situation?
[–]Aeon199 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Good question. I will get back to you on that, a bit later.
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
Let me clear this one up quickly.
No.
Now let me elaborate. My parents bribed me exactly one year ago to try match. I was one month out of a serious break up and they thought it would be good for me for some reason (it wasn't)
In my one year, I went out with maybe 5 or 6 girls from match.
I did not like any of the girls. They were mostly weird and awkward because let's face it...hotter and more desirable women would never pay to use a dating service.
I had a one night stand with one of the girls. It was ok, but she was weird.
Now for context...I am a decent looking dude. I can go on 2-3 dates a week via apps such as tinder or bumble if I desire, but for some reason the girls on match wanted nothing to do with me.
[–]iamdonkhalifa53 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Damn, that doesn’t sound ideal
Btw... I like how you assume I’m not a decent looking dude just cuz I’m 5’9 and 250 and bald Lol. In the words of Eric Cartman “I am not fat! I’m festively plump”
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I didnt assume anything man. I'm saying that I didnt have any luck on there in spite of my above average looks
[–]iamdonkhalifa53 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I was just joking man , I didn’t think you meant anything by it.
[–]Aeon199 -1 points0 points1 point 8 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Qualify "weird" and what's wrong with it.
What kind of weird? Weird as in just being interested in your money or future potential? That's one kind of "bad weird."
Weird as in enjoying science fiction, having artistic hobbies/interests, being a geek, being an introvert? That's the good kind.
I'm a guy with Asperger's and socially awkward is what I'm looking for with women. So I don't like your judgment here. Weird is fine as long as it's not overt to the point that something is clearly off in an obvious, public way.
HP Lovecraft was very weird, but also the best at what he did. He found a very attractive woman who might be weird by your standards--a fully grown woman into science fiction/weird fiction--but they were a perfect match at the time. And according to pictures I've seen, pretty darn attractive.
So, define what's "bad weird" for you. I really wanna know.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Sure man. For me it's that the girls are socially awkward.
Remember "weird" is a subjective term.
One girl looked at me like I was trying to kill her after I attempted to hold to hand one hour into the date. Another girl didnt have a drivers license at the age of 26.
Maybe a better phrase would be "not my type"
These girls could be great for another guy.
One girl was a pharmacist. After two dates I cut it off because I had zero physical attraction. She was "normal " just not my type.
I'm into educated women that I perceive to be attractive with strong communication skills, mentally stability, and not afraid to have sex on the first date
[–]Aeon199 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Another girl didnt have a drivers license at the age of 26.
Some folks do not drive or are so bad at it, they literally shouldn't.
It's not weird to me knowing what I know about Asperger's and ADD.
But God forbid man, what if you lost your job or you had to work low-end jobs to make ends meet. What if you became "your own weird."
I'm a guy with Asperger's who doesn't function like a normal adult. I could choose to be ashamed and hate myself for that--hell, I don't even know how to shop for clothes, as one example, not that I can't.. but it's such a nuisance for me--or I could realize I could have worse things going on. Or I could realize some women are "lost in space" like me, and how, like.. it's not weird.
Some of the weirdest, as you should know, are often some of the very brightest. Oliver Sacks was face blind (could not recognize others by their face) and gay. Yet look at what he accomplished.
Hopefully you learned something today. Forget weird. It's often code for "different, in a good way."
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I appreciate the positive spin. Weird has many meanings.
I'm "weird" and many of the girls I've liked are "weird" but this is in a quirky, fun way.
Then theres "weird" in the sense that I wouldn't want to be seen in public with this person
[–]GuyFromDaStore 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Plenty of fat girls!
[–]Vibez__ 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Online game should ALWAYS be a supplement to IRL game. To be honest, even if you're a beginner/intermediate at IRL game you shouldn't even be thinking about online game, use the time you'd spend online to practise IRL game.
Online is for the diehard IRL game pros.
[–]ItsOkToBeBlack -2 points-1 points0 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
No. Bald. Short. Fat. It's over bro.
Even with a kick ass beard??? 😞
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