Lately, I've been afraid of getting rejected. Right now, I do not want to get rejected

I understand that it isn't me, she might just not be interested, I understand that there are a lot of factors that play into this, I understand I have to keep trying and trying, but for the life of me, I just...am afraid!!! I know it only hurts me if I think it'll hurt me. I know it's all in the mind and all that but fuck I can't stop thinking that it won't hurt because it does! I am well aware that it's all in your mind and you can take rejection as a good thing and I've tried this many many times.

I've tried thinking of rejection as a good thing but at the end of the day, it still hurts. I do not want to keep getting rejected.

I was talking to the security guard who is a friend of mine in the club yesterday and he said it's either approaching and getting rejected, or nothing. There is no other way.

I am aware I should develop myself and that I should get a new haircut, start working out, start a hobby or whatever. I've tried all those things, and nothing helps.

I just don't like getting rejected, it hurts and I know what y'all will say, but I am looking for a different advice, something different, more practical idk something that'll make me think it's not me or even that is fine. Knowing that it isn't me isn't going to stop me from getting rejected. And knowing that it IS me, will not help me find out what it is about me that's wrong. It's really painful not being liked or being rejected. Being ignored, is even worse.

I fucking hate rejection :( I hate it.