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| 3 | Naming your philosophy after something that represented objective reality in a movie doesn't make it that.Spot on. The veil of RP is the frustration of incels of why women don't fit their certain criteria and exhibit a behavior of their own making. It's absolutely toxic. Accept women and relationship dynamics for what they are, don't hate the players, hate the game. | /r/seduction | 11/10/20 03:59 AM |
| 2 | From "Shit" test to "Frame" Tests - All about why they are goodThese sorts of "tests" are often not deliberate. This small detail is important, because a lot of guys who are frustrated with social interactions often ascribe deliberate malice to things that are not deliberate. This rings so true and is a extremely important note. You hit it right on the dot. Women and men don't deliberately and consciously test one another as a vetting process. This is something that happens regardless of whether we are conscious of it or not. Great point, I will definitely … | /r/seduction | 13/08/20 02:23 AM |
| 5 | From "Shit" test to "Frame" Tests - All about why they are goodEmotional reactivity - clear example at work for everyone reading - what not to do | /r/seduction | 12/08/20 07:57 AM |
| 1 | From "Shit" test to "Frame" Tests - All about why they are goodSome people would rather be comforted by a lie than live with the truth. Also More for us eh? 👌 | /r/seduction | 12/08/20 06:50 AM |
| 3 | From "Shit" test to "Frame" Tests - All about why they are goodFunny enough this isn’t exclusive to first encounters. Your frame will be tested throughout the relationship from the first meeting even throughout a LTR. And this isn’t in the context of “DMing” girls. Have you ever been out to a popular nightclub and talked to the hottest girls in that club? Or even at a random coffee shop during the day? All it is is a test. Just by the emotional response this wall of text has triggered, gives a great clue to how much experience you actually have. I’ll end wi… | /r/seduction | 12/08/20 06:37 AM |
| 9 | From "Shit" test to "Frame" Tests - All about why they are goodThis is exactly what I mean by becoming emotionally reactive and failing the test. Really really attractive girls have to throw these out to guys because generally they are getting so much positive attention from so many guys that they have to weed out the guys who are not mentally confident and are secure with themselves. It’s a completely different world they live in. It’s mindblowing to see actually. Put yourself in the shoes of a very hot victoria’s secret model. In their world guys are offe… | /r/seduction | 12/08/20 06:16 AM |
| -1 | Why isn't there any advice for women to seduce men on this sub?Honestly if you adapt the mindset/techniques of a PUA, but tailored to you, you will absolutely kill it compared to guys doing this stuff | /r/seduction | 11/05/20 03:54 AM |
| 1 | Why isn't there any advice for women to seduce men on this sub?Here: r | /r/seduction | 11/05/20 02:59 AM |
| 2 | Making it a pisstakeDepends, she might not accept him, but if her friends like him she will definitely be more eager to wing woman for him. If you get rejected in front of a girl and her friends see you, you believe that her friends will see you as more attractive? Your value in that group's eyes just massively took a nosedive regardless of how much they liked you before you got rejected. You just got preselected to be a less desireable guy. She will be more eager to get out of that situation than try to help a guy… | /r/seduction | 21/04/20 07:05 PM |
| 3 | Making it a pisstakeIt’s “sexy” for a guy you reject to be non chalant about it? Okay sure I’ll give you that. But you already rejected him. Any chance of that “sex appeal” and “confidence” to amount to anything was already shot down. This is so misleading for a lot of guys. Now I’m all for being a good person and not leaving destruction behind after rejection and spreading negative vibes But let’s not equate “vulnerability” in this instance to “sex appeal”. You’re not all of the sudden going to stop a guy after yo… | /r/seduction | 21/04/20 05:47 PM |
| 1 | It's not you, women just don't like to be approached in publicI would bet my entire net worth that the guy who follows the opposite of what this post is saying will have a much more successful dating life than the guy who does | /r/seduction | 14/11/19 06:18 PM |
| 4 | Pickup is getting watered downI’m building one. I am part of a group that recognized the advice on seddit was aimed at beginners and we created a group that has been up for 2+ years now. It has some of the absolute best insights in game. Unfortunately the mods in that forum are inactive so I’m unable to invite people into that group. So I created a new one recently. You’re invited. | /r/seduction | 14/11/19 03:43 PM |
| 4 | Pickup is getting watered downIn order to have reached that fundamental understanding, you would of had to had done approaches and learned a baseline of game to get to where you are now. The problem with this general advice is that many people are cutting out the actual experience of talking to the girl face to face and just thinking that girls will come knocking at their door without any difficult and grueling work. All the better for now, picking up girls just got so much easier with a lot less competition | /r/seduction | 14/11/19 03:30 PM |
| -2 | It's not you, women just don't like to be approached in publicIf you completely disagree with the ^ advice PM me | /r/seduction | 14/11/19 02:26 AM |
| 2 | The Triangular GazeThis obviously is a fluid technique and not stagnant. Ideally in this situation you're doing the 20 second gaze if she's doing most of the talking. The number of seconds is not the point of this technique. Imagine if you were on a date with a girl and she is so into the conversation that she keeps talking for a straight 5 mins or more. This technique would very much work on that type of situation. Also if the mood is right even if she isn't talking this can work if there is enough sexual tension… | /r/seduction | 13/11/19 10:33 PM |
| 7 | The Triangular GazeExactly! I’ve used this to build up the tension just before a kiss. If done right this is a powerful move that will have her wanting you to kiss her. If you don’t this could come in as a subtle powerful tease like a push-pull. You pull her in with the triangular gaze and tease her by not going through with it when she knows she wants it and you know you can do it | /r/seduction | 13/11/19 09:19 PM |
| 14 | The Triangular GazeThis is an old PUA tactic that I learned a long time ago and still use to this day. It is perfect to build sexual tension and really create a mood that will help you in escalation. This build a lot of sexual tension when done right. Use it on top of other escalation techniques. It goes like this: Mid conversation/date/approach become quiet and just look at the girl. Have piercing eye contact. Look at the girl , pick one eye and hold your eye contact whether that be the right or left. As 10-15 … | /r/seduction | 13/11/19 04:29 AM |
| 4 | Field Tested Tactic: Don't only put your contact info in her phone [FR]My mindset when the girl tells me "Ok give me your number" I interpret it as "Ok just give this shit to me so we're done with the set and I'll never text or see you again." In my mind I immediately think of the opportunity cost. The following seconds I spend still talking to this girl is cutting away from my next approach with the next girl. I go immediately just cut to the chase and try to end it. This does a sort of reverse psychology where I as the initial "Buyer" becomes disinterested an… | /r/seduction | 10/10/19 04:17 AM |
| 7 | Field Tested Tactic: Don't only put your contact info in her phone [FR]Ehh in terms of old school pickup, everything was testable. This first one may be obvious to you but may not be for others. This set was but a drop in the ocean. #Abundance | /r/seduction | 10/10/19 01:19 AM |
| 2 | Goal for this week: 30+ ApproachesThat ain’t what yo mama call me last night. Something about “Daddy!!” | /r/seduction | 01/10/19 04:24 AM |
| 1 | Goal for this week: 30+ ApproachesWill keep this post updated as the week unfolds. By Sunday let's see what my numbers are as you said. Cheers | /r/seduction | 01/10/19 01:29 AM |
| 6 | New here :) helloThis might be the wrong /r/ lol | /r/seduction | 21/09/19 04:43 AM |
| 2 | Is there a good seduction book similar to 48 laws of power?If you go about seduction as some sort of power struggle in the people you attract without considering ethics, you will be very miscalibrated and be unable to be very successful in your game. At least long term. People's emotions get the best of them and the best of you. If you go about seduction this way, you will have a lot of drama and very little retention in the girls you're attracting. That being said, there is information you can find out there. Anything you learn, you can detach the et… | /r/seduction | 25/12/18 05:21 AM |
| 40 | Leave her better than you found her--------------------------- Was it the new deodorant I just bought? Added this reference in there to make it light hearted, I'm glad you guys get my comedy hahaha | /r/seduction | 26/09/18 04:58 AM |
| 8 | Leave her better than you found herI've had wings that would get extremely bitter during/right after an approach. They had nothing but bad things to say after things didn't turn out the way they imagined. Those wings now have either quit game or are very bitter and jaded about girls and are wondering why not a lot of girls want to hang around them. This is definitely something to think about in terms of longevity, what comes around eventually comes back around | /r/seduction | 26/09/18 04:56 AM |
| 1 | Anxiety before a dateI had huge anxiety issues when I first started getting dates from girls. My hands would tremble, I'd get sweaty, I would over think every little detail about how the date will go. The biggest thing to do I'd say is to expect nothing from her. The reason why you get anxiety before a date is because you really want it to work out and you really care about the outcome. Take a deep breath. Take another deep breath. You are okay, the reason why you have a date in the first place is because this gir… | /r/seduction | 22/09/18 06:03 PM |
| 3 | Solo daygame...the first 10 approaches...The biggest thing is that you will be in your head. At some point when you're out solo, it all comes down to that mindset of just letting all the bullshit go and just doing the approach. Cheers and good luck to you brother :) | /r/seduction | 19/09/18 09:46 PM |
| 2 | Am I overthinking? 23Mhad a good time but didn't close down or make a move Before you move on, take in the lesson. | /r/seduction | 22/02/18 01:12 AM |
| 2 | Is rejection the only way?You know how many times I've been rejected? I lost count. You know how many times something worked after I got rejected? Many times. The truth is, how can you ever find out if that random girl you see walking down the street is compatible with you? You have to put yourself out there, be vulnerable and most of the time, yes, get rejected. Yet if it was all just rejection then seduction wouldn't be a thing. I'm not going to sugar coat it. You're going to get hurt. You're going to feel like shit ag… | /r/seduction | 17/02/18 12:19 AM |
| 20 | STOTD - You just want sex / to fuck meRecently read a different approach to this particularly when the girl calls you out on being sexual with her. "What do I want to do to you?" She repeats You wanna fuck me "Ooo say it again" She repeats "You're such a naughty girl...say it again" Repeats At this point she should be turned on enough to the point where you can overtly become more sexual with her. Haven't personally field tested this, but it seems like a intensely quick way to turn her on. This has to be said in a slow quiet seducti… | /r/seduction | 14/02/18 11:08 PM |
| 1 | [FR] First try at #Grocery store game, integrating Game to everyday life.Sent a priv message, we're in the same area. We should game sometime | /r/seduction | 14/02/18 09:46 PM |
| 6 | Over the last 10 months, I did about 100 approaches, but after a month of absence I have terrible approach anxiety (again) - How is this possible? Has anyone experienced this?This is exactly what happened to me recently. I started gaming last year and 9 months in I had to put game on the back burner and really had to focus all my time and effort into school. More than 4 months went by without a single approach/number/date. I started gaming again about 3 weeks ago and found that some of my issues back then, approach anxiety, being needy, not knowing how to text after I got a number, etc etc etc. I think what could have made me get back in faster was if I'd taken notes… | /r/seduction | 11/02/18 10:13 PM |
| 3 | Extreme shittestSee other girls. Getting riled up and jealous about this will just put you into that oneitis mindset. I hate to say it but there are just some girls that really know how to push buttons and they get off to that shit (Don't know if this is that type of girl but from what you wrote, it might be). Don't play into her games and see 3+ girls other than her. You won't care whatever this girl throws at you. That's how you win this shit test. Just don't expect to stay a while without constant drama. | /r/seduction | 11/02/18 01:13 AM |
| 2 | Emma Field Explains Her Expectations for Men: "I'm a lemon. So I'd like you to make the most of me. And I don't mean by adding sugar and advertising me on the street, I mean, getting used to puckering."This video is out of place. | /r/seduction | 10/02/18 04:21 AM |
| 1 | I just dont know what to doIt sounds like you did mostly everything right. I would imagine your only mistake here was maybe you needed to tease her and challenge her more verbally. It seems like you already kissed this girl so I see no other reason why this girl is being like this. Most likely she got hit on by another guy who she may be interested in. Regardless your best bet is to use push pull through text. Be non needy and tease her like you're flirting. But look for and talk to other girls at the same time. Game othe… | /r/seduction | 10/02/18 01:14 AM |
| 1 | Watching Your HumorI'm only telling you based off of my 22 years of experience. As /u/ThrowawayPUA mention the goal isn't to make her laugh or be that funny guy. It's to seduce her. I too was focused on being that cool funny guy, but all I got from it was a bunch of girls friendzoning me. Focus on this for a while a field test it yourself. I think you'll find out maybe a month or so in that your priorities weren't set right. | /r/seduction | 10/02/18 12:57 AM |
| 3 | Friend-zone helpDon't tell her over text. Enough time has passed to where you can completely change her view of you. Get her out with you. Then make your moves and escalate her. She'll get the message that this boy from 6th grade is a real man now. | /r/seduction | 09/02/18 06:07 AM |
| 4 | [41M] Frustrated, sad, and just kind of lost. Help?You need to completely change your lifestyle and habits. Let me just say that you MUST MOVE to a city with large numbers of people NEw York, Los Angeles, Miami, London, where ever the hell there's more people and move next to a high volume area that has nightlife. Make logistics your bitch that will always be there for you. List your advantages. 1) you have money 2) you can move and do what ever the fuck you want 3) a lot of these girls only like older men. Now there's just absolutely no room fo… | /r/seduction | 09/02/18 05:53 AM |
| 10 | The girl of my dreams is my lab instructor. She is younger than me. Lots of the guys in my class like her (I think, at least my friend likes her). How can I win her over?Wait and see. You won't get this girl because you're putting her on a pedestal. Girls don't fall for guys who they look down upon. She has no choice but to look down on you when you put her up on that pedestal. Prove me wrong, I dare you. | /r/seduction | 09/02/18 04:45 AM |
| 20 | The girl of my dreams is my lab instructor. She is younger than me. Lots of the guys in my class like her (I think, at least my friend likes her). How can I win her over?"Don't call it one-itis, because this really is the girl of my dreams, if ever there is one." You don't have oneitis, you have extremely severe oneitis. | /r/seduction | 09/02/18 04:34 AM |
| 1 | Watching Your HumorI used to think that girls were telling the truth when they say "I want a guy who is funny." It's a skill in itself to be able to make a girl laugh, but I feel like its a very small part of the big picture. Ask yourself, do comedians actually get laid more than...let's say rockstars/Djs/rappers/actors/etc ect ect. If comedians actually got laid more than who I mentioned above, then that advice that girls love guys who make them laugh would hold true. But it's complete bullshit that girls think t… | /r/seduction | 09/02/18 03:15 AM |
| 1 | What are some of your smoothest Kino moves?Great post! I know you're supposed to give some excuse as to why you're doing what you're doing. That's just the weird part that hasn't come naturally. For instance, the way I've always progressed to hold a girl's hand was if were at a cross light, the moment the walk sign signals, I straight up just grab her hand and say "Let's go." I haven't been so clever at making up excuses for other situations like if we're sitting next to one another or maybe when it's at the end of the night and we're sa… | /r/seduction | 09/02/18 03:06 AM |
| 1 | Always back awayRead the damn sidebar ---------------------------> | /r/seduction | 09/02/18 12:00 AM |
| 2 | Not sure what to do about this nervous girl? body language etcI'm going to tell you right now. If you keep trying to find every nuance of every situation with this girl, you're not going to get her. "Paralysis by analysis." I'm going to be real with you, you're not going to get this girl. What I said will come true and then you'll have a lesson that you need to come to terms with. It would've been easier to do as I told you and make a move. "My next step is too keep the conversation going longer and not cut it short." Sounds like something a very good FRIE… | /r/seduction | 08/02/18 11:49 PM |
| 1 | Need some adviceTouch her and flirt at the same time. She will find out very quickly that you know what you want. | /r/seduction | 08/02/18 11:46 PM |
| 3 | Not sure what to do about this nervous girl? body language etcWrong. It sounds like you're both shy and inexperienced. You will keep running in circles in your head if you keep doing this to yourself (Been there done that). Be the man in this whole thing. Has it ever occurred to you that The only way to know for sure is to make a move Aww but you're too busy analyzing things. Watch her get asked out and swept off her feet by someone who actually makes their move. I'm trying to push you, but that's real life, I've crushed on girls and never made a move beca… | /r/seduction | 08/02/18 11:42 PM |
| 7 | Found the one but she is a doctor!As someone who is very familiar with the healthcare industry. It's considered very unprofessional to date a patient of yours. ..."I know for a fact she is the one." This just sounds like a very severe case of oneitis. | /r/seduction | 08/02/18 11:38 PM |
| 3 | Not sure what to do about this nervous girl? body language etcThere are already so many green lights that I read in your post, yet you fumble around trying to interpret every little thing. Does she like me? What if she touches her hair and looks away? What if it the moon shines this way and i flip a coin and it lands heads, is she into me? Stop over analyzing and make your move. | /r/seduction | 08/02/18 10:46 PM |
| 1 | What are some of your smoothest Kino moves?Lol that would work only if she's already in bed with you | /r/seduction | 08/02/18 10:19 PM |
| 1 | Girl playing hard to get after first date."I can give you a reason to be tired about ;)" Again don't lose your cool and just act like you're flirting or just having fun. The moment you lose your cool and show too much neediness, this girl is going to leave. | /r/seduction | 08/02/18 07:30 AM |
| 1 | Girl playing hard to get after first date.https://web.archive.org/web/20111018201257/http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/iq6nx/common_shit_tests_and_how_to_defuse_them | /r/seduction | 08/02/18 06:22 AM |
| 1 | Girl playing hard to get after first date.Not exactly. You should put your foot down only when she's been fucking around with you too much, but don't do it in a way that sounds like you've taken it personal. She's testing whether she can walk all over you or not, which is a really good sign. There's a couple things you can do when she does this; Agree and amplify, reframe what she is doing, tease her, or put your foot down and set clear limits. Be playful with her, like you're flirting with her. If you keep that vibe up, then you're on … | /r/seduction | 08/02/18 06:10 AM |
| 2 | Girl playing hard to get after first date.Game her. She's shit testing you everywhere. You just gotta pass the shit tests and she'll go out with you again. The biggest thing to remember; be non needy. You sound like you are doing alright so far. Keep it up and don't lose your cool. | /r/seduction | 08/02/18 05:57 AM |
| 1 | Short FR: Waited too long and still got the numberGreat field report I definitely have overthought this several times and not approached a girl I was really meaning to talk to. I liked how you were being completely honest with what you were doing, which actually makes you more friendly/ballsy at the same time. Keep up the good work! | /r/seduction | 08/02/18 05:50 AM |
| 2 | What to reply if a girl says "maybe" when you ask her to a date.It means you asked too early without spiking up her emotions/added value/comfort. She has to be at a certain level of comfort/value with you to get her out. What I would do is Ignore what ever happened and REALLy spike her emotions, then ask again tomorrow. Make an impact on her and she will go be more than happy to go out with you. On the surface though if you just wait and do nothing, "maybe" means "no" | /r/seduction | 08/02/18 05:11 AM |
| 10 | Is it okay to add someone you don’t know VERY well.I'm going to give you the most real advice that I would have given myself when I was attracted to a girl in my class, before I knew about Game. If you haven't had a conversation with this girl yet, you are not going anywhere. Period. Every girl I approach, I WISH she was in my class, so I wouldn't have to pull that random add bullshit. I've only got 1-2 girls out by adding them randomly, and that's out of many many girls that I've tried to hit up. Stop overthinking shit. Talk to her in real life… | /r/seduction | 08/02/18 04:45 AM |
| 2 | I've been in pickup for 1 year now and feel like I'm going nowhere. And it's getting to me.I've tried to do that almost every time when it was logistically possible. Looking back the only times it has worked is when it was an instant date and it was so fuckin sponteneous that when I came back to my place, I realized that my apt was a fuckin mess, and so I ended up just taking them somewhere else. Now being fuckin honest that was a big mistake. I need to keep this bitch as clean as possible | /r/seduction | 03/02/18 09:49 PM |
| 1 | I've been in pickup for 1 year now and feel like I'm going nowhere. And it's getting to me.Low pressure typical coffee first dates/food instant dates. At one point I tried doing hiking as a first date, but that shit never worked, I guess it was just too much pressure. I also have just taken them to the beach and do shit there like I did with this girl. I would take them out for a drink. But the girls that are into me are almost always under 21. I think I've only dated 1 chick that was old enough to legally go to a bar | /r/seduction | 03/02/18 09:19 PM |
| 2 | I've been in pickup for 1 year now and feel like I'm going nowhere. And it's getting to me.I cold approach hard core bro. Online was just full of fat chicks for me. Not my style. I've been out day and night and probably have done over a hundred approaches by now | /r/seduction | 03/02/18 09:06 PM |
| 2 | I've been in pickup for 1 year now and feel like I'm going nowhere. And it's getting to me.This definitely speaks to me. I have been escalating so much so that even I feel that it's way too forced. Will just take it a step back next time and see what happens. As for the whole abundance thing, I get it. I've been with 2-3 girs at once and had 0 neediness. The thing is, abundance is harder to fake when you're really only seeing one chick at a time. | /r/seduction | 03/02/18 08:43 PM |
| 1 | I've been in pickup for 1 year now and feel like I'm going nowhere. And it's getting to me.Of course I've tried that several times. This was just one girl out of many. In the past when I did escalate to try to make something happen the first time, I was told that I was moving way too fast and then the next day I was ghosted. In this case I wanted to do the opposite, escalate but take things a little bit slower and feel less forced. May have gotten the same end result though. The way I wrote this post was not intended to be fucking cringy, it was just what I was feeling last night afte… | /r/seduction | 03/02/18 08:39 PM |
| 1 | 24M BeginnerMake sure to get pickup info ONLY from reliable sources. https://web.archive.org/web/20040712014919/http://www.fastseduction.com:80/guide/ Here is a link to the original alt.seduction.fast forum Good luck | /r/seduction | 02/02/18 07:38 PM |
| 4 | What would you do in my heartbroken shoesMOVE THE FUCK ON man!! You've wasted four months sitting on your ass feeling sorry for your shit. If she left you, that means she wasn't right for you. It's time to wake the fuck up and go back out there and find a girl who will treat you better! | /r/seduction | 31/01/18 05:13 AM |
| 4 | How to get girls as a short dudeSince when was 5'7" short? Style from The Game is 5'6" And he at one point was the greatest PUA to walk this earth. You know what the difference between him and you are? He certainly did not have a chip on his shoulder about how short/tall he was. | /r/seduction | 31/01/18 04:43 AM |
| 1 | After two months with her, I realized she had a boyfriend.Sit somewhere else. If she brings up why you're being distant, just brush it off. There's no need to bring this girl up or even give her a second thought if you both don't see eye to eye. Focus on finding a girl who is actually into you and not how you can approach this situation. There's no need to make a scene. That's some AFC shit. Brush it off like nothing happened and then go out there and find a new girl. | /r/seduction | 30/01/18 05:46 AM |
| 1 | Sort of a weird question that I have.Go to places where the types of girls you want are. I've been to cosplay/anime/video game conventions and there's all kinds of girls into the same things. If you keep learning game, you'll have an advantage over every single guy there. You gotta be specific with what you want and have a plan on how to get it. Not all girls will be into video games or anime or Pokemon or even basketball. You have to ask yourself where is the most densely populated area that has the type of girl that I want and go… | /r/seduction | 30/01/18 05:27 AM |
| 1 | How should I approach this?You're overthinking it man. This girl is atleast interested in you. Text her and don't think about the outcome. Sounds to me you had a great night, but then you put yourself in your head because you want this girl to like you. Stop bullshitting yourself and keep moving forward with this girl. Good luck. | /r/seduction | 30/01/18 05:21 AM |
| 2 | After two months with her, I realized she had a boyfriend.In that case then https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DGjGJvzfUbs I say don't make a big deal out of it. What are you trying to accomplish by making a big scene with her and you? Unless you're still trying to get in there regardless (which is still a valid option). Then just next her man. Just don't make her your gf if she does do stuff with you. | /r/seduction | 30/01/18 04:35 AM |
| 1 | People get out of my way in the street, do you think I may creep girls ?If this is happening on a day to day basis in different locations, then I suggest looking at yourself in the mirror and be honest with yourself. Also a smile when you walk (not a creepy one) goes a long way | /r/seduction | 30/01/18 04:31 AM |
| 0 | After two months with her, I realized she had a boyfriend.I think you're assuming a little too much. What if this girl doesn't actually have a bf? Wouldn't OP have seen him with her by now if they've been together for months? Also what if he is real and he's abusing the fuck out of her. You never know. Go off facts, not assumptions. | /r/seduction | 30/01/18 04:24 AM |
| 2 | After two months with her, I realized she had a boyfriend.DO NOT bring it up. How do you know for sure that this guy isn't lying to you? Wouldn't you have seen him by now? Even if it was true, to her you are better than whatever she's been getting, so brush it off and keep doing what you were doing before. | /r/seduction | 30/01/18 04:22 AM |
| 1 | Sort of a weird question that I have.It depends. What kind of girls are you going for? If you want the girls who are also into anime, then they will be the ones who understand. It won't be weird to them, and it actually is a plus. If you go to anime conventions and vibe with the girls there and can really relate, then having pictures of anime can actual be something that can start a conversation. However, the anime community is a very niche community, meaning that only a few girls will find it interesting. As for other girls who ar… | /r/seduction | 30/01/18 04:14 AM |
| 1 | Long distance relationshipsDoesn't work out. If you want to waste months/years of your life, by all means. This is probably not what you wanted to hear. But I've never seen a long distance relationship work. One of my closest friends was in a Long distance relationship for 4 years. Guess what? They broke up. Approach, don't waste time. | /r/seduction | 29/01/18 10:04 AM |
| 2 | Wishing a girl that flaked on you a happy birthdayHonestly, I would do the opposite, it sounds fucked up, but don't even waste anymore energy on this girl. This post tells me you haven't completely moved on. Next her. Don't reward bad behavior. The sooner you stop thinking about this girl, the better. Spend time thinking about girls who are actually into you, not ones that flake and give you lame excuses. Been there done that. | /r/seduction | 29/01/18 09:54 AM |
| 3 | How to stop being desperate for sex or dating?Stop REJECTING YOURSELF. You are already beating yourself up before you even approach. Change your mindset ASAP. It seems like your approaching, but are not in the right head space. Observe where this is coming from and fix the issue. You have a symptom of learned helplessness. I went through it as well. It wasn't that I needed to do more approaches, it was that I needed to game myself. Think to yourself,"I am worth it and I will make this girl's day no matter what happens." | /r/seduction | 29/01/18 09:34 AM |
| 3 | Need help advancing on a mutual attraction1) You know exactly where you fucked up, you should have messaged her and started something going. You wouldn't be trying to get her snapchat or # right now if you'd done it months ago right? Case and point - Learn from your mistakes Now as for seeing her again, try and have the same vibe when you first met her. You've already talked to this girl and she seems to know you. Start flirting with her again, but this time try and make something happen rather than do nothing afterwards - you already k… | /r/seduction | 29/01/18 09:20 AM |
| 1 | Whenever I go to a bar with a lot of dancing, I freeze up a bit. How do you recommend I get more comfortable with it?Put yourself out of your comfort zone. Go to the middle of the dance floor and just stay there. You'll feel uncomfortable for some time, but eventually you'll start to get comfortable and dance/interact with the people around you. It's really about pushing yourself out of your comfort zone thereby extending it. | /r/seduction | 29/01/18 09:08 AM |
| 1 | I was told by a girl today that I’m not fucking material and instead more of dating material, what does this mean?Next her ASAP, the more you think about this girl and what she said the more time you waste. Spend your time thinking about girls who are actually into you and are worth it. | /r/seduction | 29/01/18 08:54 AM |
| 2 | Does anyone else watch an RSD video and feel like they spent 20 minutes on someone rambling about some random shit and feel like they learned nothing?Yes, I've since stopped following them after months of watching their videos and going to their freetours. There's nuggets of good info here and there, but I found that they mostly handle inner game. Stick to a more reliable source, achieve more solid results. I suggest looking into hardcore pickup posts/forums to become an actual PUA. | /r/seduction | 29/01/18 08:21 AM |
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