This is a follow-up to my post about struggling going out talking to girls with no wing to back me up. I called one of my past wings recently about my dilemma. He knows of my past experience and really pushed me to do what I had set out to do. This wing told me that I should be able to go out by myself and do 20 approaches by myself in a whole daygame session and that that number was definitely reasonable given my experience. I thought it over for a couple days and went out and did 1-2 approaches a day for a week (Failed miserably trying to achieve this).

I have decided to go 6 months fully dedicated on solo game whether that be day or night. No wings, no bullshit, just me and my will to succeed (lol).

Yesterday however, I decided it was time to really push myself out of my comfort zone. I approached a total of 10 girls in the past 2 days. I stuck to my rule in which I will only approach 8+ during the day and not settle for anything less (Previous experience has led to success with this mindset). Of those 10 girls, 3 had "boyfriends", 2 got away with not exchanging anything, 5 girls gave me their numbers, 3 of which were solid.

What I've realized in this time is that I need to be pushing for an instant date. Several of these girls were just free and were wandering around. Instead I got their numbers and left (which is a rookie mistake). One of the girls, I almost instant dated her, (we were just walking around talking and passing by the time). I found also that several girls have shown their human side. They are conscious about how they look in front of the guys that they are trying to impress. They are more sexual than they appear (One girl told me about her sexual fantasies and about the type of porn she gets off to...and she was this petite and small girl living with a boyfriend!). Update One of the girls who gave me her contact info and who was solid does, but never mentioned having a bf.

I can tell you now that it has been an extremely difficult 2 days (lol). I really just had to hone in on my own confidence and go out and do this myself. I had no wing to joke around with, no wing pushing me to approach sets, no wing to tell me it was going to be alright after I got rejected. I feel like I have progressed a lot in this short amount of time. My daygame approaches have gotten smoother.

I have begun to have a little traction in my effort to go out solo. I will update my journey as time goes by. Thank you everyone who has supported me in my quest to go solo.

TDLR: It has been extremely difficult, but I'm starting to have traction going solo.

First post link: https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/9ddt9y/you_are_screwing_yourself_by_not_going_solo/