I was just walking towards school today and was just chilling. As I was walking I saw a girl walking towards me. I just smile and look away just as usual. As we get closer she smiles and begins to blush. Now I thought why tf is this girl smiling at me and why is she blushing? Was it the new deodorant I just bought? Am I finally getting ripped from going to the gym every week? Have I suddenly become that good looking guy who doesn't need to try anymore? (lol) She breaks the silence, looks up while walking the opposite direction and says," Remember me!?" with a huge smile. I was confused at first. Why is this random girl asking if I remembered her? Then I came to a quick realization. This was a girl I had approached a week before that had a bf. I remember when I approached her she had been genuinely thankful that I thought she was very attractive.

The lesson here is that no matter where you are or who you decide to talk to; leave them better than you found them. Whether that be with a girl you just met for 20 seconds or the relationship you've built over years. *Learning to become a really good PUA means that you give value to everyone*. You never know what situation or mood that the girl is in. I recall a post here a year ago about a guy getting his haircut by a girl who he thought was attractive. Months passed in between him and not making a move on this girl. He's in his head the whole time. He can't seem to get passed saying hello to this girl. Months pass in between haircuts. Then one day he comes in for a regular haircut and realized that the girl wasn't there anymore. After asking about her, her coworkers had a grim look on their face. She was experiencing a lot during that time and had just become a single mother. In the past few weeks she had decided to take it upon herself and end her life. Now other than showing that you've got the cajoneys to cold approach, this guy should've added value in a way that put a smile on her face even for a moment.

TLDR: On your journey, don't lose your humanity. Leave her better than you found her.