I am compiling a list of tactics you should or should not do based off of my 2 and a half years experience in game.

The first one might be obvious to some of us;

Here goes one of the many FRs that validated this.

I was daygaming and saw a girl that was absolutely beautiful HB8 walking. I approached her and she was receptive. She was a brunette girl with green eyes, studying to eventually become a doctor. Absolutely my type lol. My eye contact, body language, and voice projection were on point. We go back and forth getting to know each other. I am walking with her moving towards her direction, and when she's about to get into a building, I stop and she stops as well.

This is when I go for an instant date. I tell her that I was actually on my way to go get some juice for 5 mins at this place not too far from here and invited her. She accepts and we walk together to the place. On the way I crack a few jokes, she's smiling , and then I go in for some kino escalation. This girl was receptive to my kino. I knew this one was in.

I get my juice and also buy hers (she wanted to pay for herself, but I suggested to go on this instantdate so I wanted to pay). We sit down and continue chatting. I am making kino escalation moves on her and she is still receptive. Keep in mind we're about 2 and a half hours into this instant date now. My logistics were bad relative to hers (She lived the opposite way across town) so I seeded the next time I would see her. I ask her about all the different places here in cali that I haven't been to but I've always wanted to go and eventually we made plans to see each other again. It was a very successful cold approach and instant date.

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Towards the end I get this brilliant idea in my head. This set was going really well, so I decided to test out this tactic; If I give her my phone number, would she text me first? I was feeling like she was really into me and also wanted to hang out again. **(**She actually asked for my number!!). So I wanted to test whether or not if she would text me if I didn't make the first move. (I actually deleted her number from my phone to sort of "burn the boats" so to speak) If she did not make the first move, we both would never see each other again.

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She hugs me, and I walk her to her car and we part ways...

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and guess what? She never texted first. So we never saw each other again...

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This has been a recurring theme throughout atleast 30+ sets and FRs.

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Don't leave a set with only you giving her your contact info. 99% of the time she will never make the first move and she won't end up calling you or texting you.

The best thing to do if this situation comes up is to either

1: Have her call you through her phone that way you have her number.

Or 2: Be willing to actually walk away. Example: Girl "I''ll take your number." Me,"Nah it's okay. I'll see you around." and **actually start turning and walking away** (some girls will respond back to giving their number when you do this.) I've pulled this entitled move and some girls actually became more receptive after this. (Some also let me walk away and didn't bother, but I'd rather not waste my time on those girls lol.)