I thought I got it all together. I did and still do many approaches and I even get approached in bars. I got my look right since a lot of girls made comments about it. Many girls are visibly trying to flirt with me, asking my number or giving me compliments or touching me a lot or saying our zodiacs match or whatever. But they all change their minds.

Choking on plans, ghosting or even just stopping to show interest on the spot. I tried various thing from being very clear about my interest (once I straight up asked a girl if after her shift she'd come to my place for the night and I got her number and she seemed eager at first but brought back the plans to the next day and then ghosted me) or trying to show less interest (one girl thought I was gay because I seemed to be unimpressed by her physique) but it always seem to go wrong somehow.

I understand I'm not perfect, I'm kind of quirky and excentric, awkward at times, but still, I'm pretty sure anyone who would put the effort I put to it would get results.

Also, I'm not a needy guy nor am I narcissistic. When I'm genuinely interested in someone it shows but the confidence I have in myself also shows. I'm a proud man and I'm someone who likes people. I also do a lot of kino.

Do anyone here successfully got out of a similar situation? I'm intetested in what this community would think of this kind of situation.