is this a shit test?

MonitorPleasant · 2022-04-05T07:48:24+00:00

Has it occurred to you that women are people an and she might be interested in who you are as a person and form a friendship rather than thinking of you romantically?

"Can my boyfriend come" Aka are you insecure

How would you react if your girlfriend comes home saying she gave her number to a guy at the library and are going out tomorrow and invites you to join, are you thinking "we're making friends" or will that threaten your relationship?

Honestly with that kind of reaction I would just forget it and find someone with compatible socioemotional framework

incognito3107 · 2022-04-05T08:20:21+00:00

Who knows, you could reply with "Will he come as your personal chaperone to watch if everything goes appropriately?"

Probably she was playing with you, you can play along if it is not against your dignity.

Liberaler · 2022-04-05T07:44:20+00:00

How did you ask her out? Did you make your romantic intentions clear?

Neo-Rio · 2022-04-05T08:17:01+00:00

Getting numbers sucks. You should give yours and get her to chase. If she does not chase, who cares? you move on with your life and don't have a number to play with - which ensures that you don't waste any time on her.
You didn't seduce her. Sorry you only get an initial impression and shot at this, and you didn't steer the conversation into areas which would fascinate her or arouse her imagination in any potential sexual direction.
The boyfriend this is a test. I would ask her if he likes watching random men have sex with her. Screw that! Since you didn't get to the point when you met her, saying what I'm suggesting is probably not going to work for you.

LeatherBoundWisdom · 2022-04-05T08:40:12+00:00

This is either a girl with some right leaning humor throwing in a joke/tease or the girl is legitimately asking and you totally failed to communicate this is a romantic thing.

If it's the latter case the lead is dead anyway, so just assume it's a joke and pass it like a shit test. "of course, let him pay for our drinks".

Title	is this a shit test?
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	1
Comments	7
Date	April 5, 2022 7:40 AM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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