I don't know if this is the best sub for this, but I'll give it a try.

I've been going out with a few girls recently, and I've gone on a few dates with them and been pretty attracted to them, then something happens and the feeling of attraction either diminishes greatly or stops completely.

I hate hurting people, but I feel like I have to break things off every time to retain my happiness. I also don't want to make a bad reputation for myself, which seems to be happening.

Is there any way to make things better?