Is this too aggressive?

zaxanagian2 · 2018-01-29T23:08:50+00:00

Just to say in advance, the chances of her replying are very low... I once saw a female friend’s Instagram account and her DMs are full of guys trying to ask her out. You can try but don’t take it personally if you get ignored.

tksjfjfdk294 · 2018-01-30T09:34:10+00:00

Do NOT do this if you super liked her. Super liking a chick puts you at the top of her stack. She WILL see you almost right away. She WILL examine your pics with greater details. She WILL REMEMBER you when you Instagram her and know you're the guy who super likes her. If she didn't like back she's definitely NOT interested and you DMing her will creepy her the fuck out.

Do NOT do this is you super liked her. If she's interested she will like you back. If not. You will look like a stalker and get blocked as she's already turned you down once.

VillageMed · 2018-01-30T00:54:49+00:00

Your Tinder better be It-Boi status bro. When you DM her , you're already at a disadvantage , so your profile has to be levels up.

But I say fuck it and hit her up. You loose nothing anyway

MrDiece · 2018-01-29T23:23:40+00:00

What is your instagram like?

RiSKy78 · 2018-01-30T05:39:00+00:00

Hmm. I did something very similar recently. I saw this woman I liked on tinder and she had a Tumblr account in her profile. There were things in her Tumblr that intrigued me. One day she posted something very personal that I also had a personal connection with. I ended up using that post as a reason to make contact.

After a few days I sent her a DM telling her that I kept re-reading her personal post because it "struck a cord with me." I told her that I thought it was very brave how she articulated something so personal. She replied the next day and we've been chatting for the last 11 days, first about the post and now more about personal interests.

This isn't something I would normally do since I'm an introvert. I was feeling very anxious about taking the send button. But I really didn't want the opportunity of meeting her slip away. I'm really glad I did.

Title	Is this too aggressive?
Author	SecureEntertainment
Upvotes	5
Comments	13
Date	January 29, 2018 11:06 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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