It is true that attraction expires, but how long does it take for attraction to expire ?

Papaburgundy07 · 2020-01-09T05:34:21+00:00

I was the same way for a long time and I found that creating a system of checks and balances worked best. Don’t just focus on one but work on creating a network and you will find it easy to check your emotions.

OrzhovPalatine · 2020-01-09T05:41:36+00:00

You're overthinking it. You get needy because you overvalue the woman and dont want to fuck it up. You have to be fine with losing her. She should literally be expendable in your mind.

Attraction is always fleeting and depends on how you're presenting yourself to her at the moment and time. Your frame so to speak. If you break frame, her attraction wanes, it's not that complicated.

Also dont forget for the most part, it takes a women longer to like you than it takes us. So always have other candidates in the wings because women drop off.

Never rush a women, it's got to be her idea. Just keep frame and keep dsting until she gives you the "where is this going?" Speech and then it's up to you what you want

Kkai11 · 2020-01-09T06:43:30+00:00

I mean with rushing them?. Because I feel that’s my problem. I don’t want to rush them but I want to escalate fast enough so they don’t lose attraction. I escalate but it’s kinda awkward sometimes because I feel I rush the kiss. Thanks for the help

borko781 · 2020-01-09T16:21:36+00:00

Depends. 2 months max i would say

Hubblenobbin · 2020-01-09T07:10:23+00:00

Depends on the kind. You could give her a story to tell herself and it could last decades, or you could just get her horny and it could last minutes.

Title	It is true that attraction expires, but how long does it take for attraction to expire ?
Author	Kkai11
Upvotes	2
Comments	7
Date	January 9, 2020 5:08 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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