Its been a long time since my last cold approach help

epimpstyle · 2025-05-12T10:12:59+00:00

Just take small, progressive steps to get into the right mood.

At first, it takes just a few seconds: "Excuse me, is XYZ that way? ... Okay, thanks." Then, repeat the same thing until it starts to feel boring.

Next time it takes a bit longer: "excuse me, is the XYZ-that way? I want to go to XYZ-shop/mall.... ok, thanks". ... repeat until it is easy.

Next time, even longer: "Excuse me, is XYZ in that direction?" [point to the opposite way] "Oh, really? Someone else told me it was there... Alright, thanks!"

This way, you'll reach the point where you can hold a one-minute conversation.

"Excuse me, is XYZ that way? So... it's straight ahead and then to the left! (insert a deliberate mistake). Oh, it's actually to the right? So, if I go to the left I will find the XYZ-shop because I want to meet my friend who is an accountant.... you also look like an accountant. Not an accountant? Are you a cashier? No way! Two seconds to tell you a quick story... I have a friend who told me about her ex that she is a cashier and he said .... [insert a funny story]..."

At this point, you're making jokes and telling stories, but remember, you started with just a brief 2-3 second question!

Once you hold a conversation like this all you need is a simple TRANSITION and you are back in the game.

Title	Its been a long time since my last cold approach help
Author	whynoshy
Upvotes	9
Comments	1
Date	May 12, 2025 9:46 AM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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