How should your gf be different from the average woman?

midnight_blue77 · 2025-06-30T05:35:30+00:00

That's easy. She's simply mine 😊 all mine.

She is not different from average women, the only thing is that she is "for me."

Average women are not in my personal space, they are not familial to me and I owe them nothing nor do they owe me anything. What makes my gf exceptional to me is that she is not part of that outside pack of women, she is in my personal space, she's intimately close to me, I know her and she knows me. She's not just a hot girl I daydream about, she is like part of my family now where I know intimate details about her and I can share details about myself with her as well without fear of rejection.

I think that is the biggest threshold, the fear of rejection is not a factor anymore. Once we got past that, and we have established that now we are in it together where rejection or bailing out is not an option, this makes her all the more special and exceptional for me personally and intimately because now anything that involves her in my life I value above my own. She's a part of me now even though she has her own completely separate will which is the most exiting part. She wants me, and I want her. It's both as simple and as complicated as that.

Average women may lust or feel some kind of attraction for me but that attraction isn't real, it's fantasy or just quick chemical lust in the moment. Those women don't give a crap about me, they don't know me, at most they probably only like the idea of me, but not the real me. My gf is the exception because she knows me and loves me and that just in and of itself is immensely valuable and lovable to me. Even when we fight and and I'm mad at her, I'm still looking forward to seeing her smile and already thinking of ways to reconcile and make her happy. That is the exception.

leosandlattes · 2025-06-30T03:22:02+00:00

Tbh I think men should not want “average” women. Who the fuck wants to invest in some avg chick when the demographics that have the lowest divorce rates are all above avg qualities (educated, higher income, higher social background).

As I have said before on this subreddit, most women (and men) are not cut out for LTRs. They leave at the slightest bit of inconvenience and are too selfish to act appropriately in long term relationships.

AreOut · 2025-06-30T07:23:14+00:00

She should be a supermodel billionaire.

In reality she should take basic care about herself, not smoke, not take drugs, not be an alcoholic (a little bit is good), not be manipulative and have some goals in life.

Hard to find, I know.

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onlyaseeker · 2025-07-02T15:48:48+00:00

Someone who is awake, such that when you speak with them, there's a light in their eyes and sense of awareness, as if there's someone there.

In comparison to most people, where it feels like you're interacting with a collection of social conditioning scripts and a human running on autopilot.

It's unfortunately a rare quality. I envy people on here who talk about just being able to approach just about anyone and having comparability. They have no idea the amount of privilege they have.

SeemedGood · 2025-06-30T23:16:48+00:00

Kinder, less solipsistic, significantly more introspective, objectively self observant, and objectively self critical. Significantly less focused on attention whoring. More comfortable with womanhood and femininity. Less victim mentality minded. Substantially less entitled and less virtue signaling (because more actually virtuous). Less selfish and more willing to take responsibility. More thoughtful.

These are all things which my wife is in comparison to the average woman.

throwaway73737828 · 2025-07-02T19:33:11+00:00

Its all dependent on looks honestly, and not being a anger maniac. Thats it

LumpyAbbreviations24 · 2025-07-03T13:35:26+00:00

She shouldn't exist

SeemedGood · 2025-07-01T01:56:18+00:00

Actually the larger the entity the more able it is to survive co-heads without deleterious effects. And the smaller, the less so (thus divorce rates).

anonymousppd123123 · 2025-06-30T02:49:58+00:00

Significantly smarter so I don't have to dumb down my train of thought an agonizing amount and can still have a functional conversation

Not being terrible with money and not treating your body like a dumpster are also downstream from that

Business_Quiet6505 · 2025-06-30T04:00:00+00:00

Christian, white or latina, quiet, conservative, feminine, wants to adhere traditional roles, must be super skinny, nice, anti-feminist, anti-abortion, virgin, no tattoos, short

And I refuse to settle for anything else

And if I don't find a girl that meets these requirements, I'm happy and content to be alone. :)

James_M_Croft · 2025-07-01T13:07:33+00:00

Loyalty, reasonableness and maturity. Yet again. I think most women alive today with any one of these traits are older than 80. So I dont expect getting a gf so soon.

SherbertDense1415 · 2025-06-30T10:55:02+00:00

Ideally

Less promiscuous than average.

Is not slavishly devoted to worshipping extroversion as the ultimate human personal quality

Would never even entertain interracial dating, has no interest in racial fetishism or exoticism

Understands and occasionally enjoys catering to male sexuality and male sexual fantasy even when it diverges from typical female fantasies

Enjoys critical analysis instead of emotionally latching onto political movements because of the esthetics and mob mentality.

Good relationship with parents and family, cares about her FATHERS opinion of her (this is huge)

Absolutely no history of relationship "abuse" (I would hope that actually already describes the average women but if you spend anytime online it appears that the majority of women have been sexually and emotionally 'abused' by former partners, like some sort of epidemic which surprises me). I don't want anything to do with abused women, they tend to like guys who abuse them.

Schleudergang1400 · 2025-07-01T07:31:26+00:00

more attractive than the average woman.

more open to experience than the average woman

more intelligent than the average woman

Rest can be average

LivingArmadillo7204 · 2025-06-30T15:05:48+00:00

The average woman is morally under-developed, vain, emotionally volatile, boring, status-obsessed, frivolous with money, and complains constantly about her pampered, privileged life.

Any girlfriend I had would need to actually have some character, integrity, and merit. Unfortunately, I’ve never met a woman with all three.

OddRemove2000 · 2025-06-30T11:36:43+00:00

I'm not average. I'm not average weight, fitness, education, income, addictions, or savings.

I try to improve those things. Most don't. I want someone who also works to improve those things or is young and obedient.

catdog8020 · 2025-06-30T03:13:31+00:00

Ok. These are high standards so don’t judge me.
1). They need to be a woman who can walk or crawl 2). They can’t be morbidly obese

Title	How should your gf be different from the average woman?
Author	whynoshy
Upvotes	13
Comments	256
Date	June 29, 2025 9:24 PM UTC (1 year ago)
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