Long story short - went out with this girl for about 2 years, she was also one of my best mates. anyway we were long distance on and off, and a few months back she tells me she's seeing someone else. I wasnt happy but i was cool with it. however the part that burns me up is her new bf - he's a famous actor (not big screen hollywood but still), which is particularly annoying as i've been trying to break into the acting scene for a while now. It's been a massive slap in the face. I've used that fire to motivate me into going to the gym everyday, organising my life, working on my acting, increasing confidence and becoming a better person everyday. However I still bump into her sometimes with her new bf and it kills me tbh. I know that it seems like im obsessing over her, and im trying my best not to - blocked her on fb, cut off all contact, been with other girls since but I can't do anything about bumping into her.

The fact is if she was seeing anyone else it wouldn't be a big deal but as the only girl i've been in love with, the fact that she's now with someone who's far better than me in what im trying to improve is a massive slap in the face and is really burning me up. Any advice/tips/telling me to man the fuck up would be appreciated.