Growing up in a different country i faced a lot of social anxiety, and having gone to a single sex school and having friends who were even more non-charming and clueless about girls than me (and still are), i've been reading a lot of this subreddit and trying to apply it and have had small successes.

However I look around at guys who are naturally good with girls, who were getting girls when they were 14 and it seems like i'll never be able to cover this gap and reach their level. My game and charm are always far weaker than most other guys, and the older i get, the more the lack of experience holds me back.

What i was hoping for was to hear from people who have genuinely transformed themselves for the better. Rather than hearing stories about how you had one confident night where you got with a 9/10, i want to hear stories about people who were also very inexperienced but then over a number of years were able to get a girl they liked or to be in a position to be able to do that