I've always been clueless with relationships.

sillymallard · 2012-04-22T23:30:14+00:00

Your problem is you're waiting for an "organic" situation. Fuck that. You will piss away your life waiting for life to come to you. Learn to make pickup "organic", and it won't seem like you're doing anything out of the ordinary.

So here's my advice to you. You found two cool girls? That's great. Leave them alone for a little while and work on yourself. The whole point of sarging by yourself in a part of town where you won't know anybody is to minimize the pain and embarrassment of getting rejected. If you get rejected by a stranger in an environment full of strangers far away from home, you don't really have to worry about how bad you might mess up in your approach. Nobody will talk about it, and they most likely won't remember you either. When you get good at pickup, then approach these two girls. Odds are, however, that you'll see the light and realize these two girls are not THAT special after all. Hell, you might already have found someone better by that point.

baldrad · 2012-04-22T07:31:09+00:00

alright here is what you do... This is coming from one big guy to another...

You get your 2 best friends. you tell them this... see what they say... I would keep the friendship thing at just that... a friendship right now... Take the chance on the girl who you really don't lose anything if she says no

NOW that your 2 friends know, think of a time when at least one of them is with you that you see her (if not its cool we come to that later)

Now when you see this fine girl you think this thought "i wanna be the very best, like no one ever was" then you walk up to this girl, either ask her out on a date, or get that number, maybe add in some witt, if you get turned down, then you lose nothing at all... if you get a yes, then dude you just got a yes.

Your friend is their who knows the situation as support. if you get it then awesome, if not then hey you shouldn't be embarressed... it will help steady your nerves...

if friend isn't there just listen to some boss music before hand...

ALSO this is very important, if you do get a no, listen to this song afterwords, http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2H5uWRjFsGc

So this brings me to your other friend. Do you get any IoI's? and hang out with her and her boyfriend, see how she acts then... if it is different then yea something may be up.

mkkpt · 2012-04-22T18:15:25+00:00

Here's my opinion as a mid twenties guy.

The girl who's 17, stop seeing her so much and flirt with her more. Tell her she's lucky she's got a boyfriend right now. You're both young so it's unlikely that she'll be with him for a long time. In the meantime make yourself busy by doing cool shit and hitting on some other girls (maybe even her friends).

Mutual friend girl - organise a cool party somewhere with friends. Be cool, hit on her. If you're in a country where drinking age is 18, get her drunk (try making her cocktails). If you're in USA, I would never suggest you get alcohol by other means, ever....

Title	I've always been clueless with relationships.
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Date	April 22, 2012 6:11 AM UTC (14 years ago)
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