Something you guys always hear from others regarding dating. But this advice feels so vague to the point where it doesn't help people who need it. I wish it was as simple as 2 + 2, unfortunately for me it's not. I've been trying to be myself for all of my life but the hobbies I have aren't getting me closer to getting with a woman anytime soon. In fact, I love to play video games all day if I could and perhaps even make tiktoks when I'm bored. But that isn't getting me girls.

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The better advice I heard was to get out there, or rather put yourself out there. I feel like thats better advice than the average "just be yourself". If being yourself involves staying home all day playing video games then unfortunately for you, it's gonna be tough to find a woman. I wish this "game" sh!t was easy, but it's not easy if you don't try. The question comes down to Where exactly should I go to "put myself out there?". Well, that's something I'm working on at the moment. I can't give the answer to that since I'm not you. But what I can say is to do something you don't usually do.

For me I usually play Super Smash Bros Ultimate since that's one of the things I'm really good at. I also like to drink boba tea and I'm slowly getting into manga. So my example would be to go to a barns and noble for manga books as well as heading to smash bros tournaments.

I personally don't know how guys who looks wild looking get girls tbh. Its all confidence they say. But man I wish pussy just falls onto your lap like in the animes.

I hope this helped, somehow.