I just realized not long ago, what rejection really is, and why it does not matter, the majority of the time.

We are all here, learning to play the game, and we don't understand what the game is. Even I did not get what it is, and it was confusing for me because there are sooooo many times I have seen indicators of interest all over the place with many women, and they still reject me. . . So what's the fuckin deal? I figured out what the deal is. The deal is, the game. And this is the game. Are you ready for it? Ok, here we go. This is what the game is. The game that women are playing, which is why they are "rejecting" you, is called... . . . Playing... . . . hard... . . . toooooooo... . . . get! That's the game! Playing hard to get! Women are PLAYING at rejecting you! It makes so much sense to me now. This is how they filter guys. Girls are being approached all the time. The weakest ones give up after a rejection or two. The ones that get laid are the ones who are not dissuaded after one or two rejections.

Now of course, there are women who really DONT want you, and the way you tell who those are, is those women reject you pretty hard, very sternly. The ones who are playing, give halfhearted, incomplete, insincere rejections while smiling. The more I think about this, the more it makes sense. Women don't want to feel easy, and they don't want you to think that they are easy, even though they want too be easy. Women are more influenced by societal consequences than men are, they have to watch out for that first and get laid second. As I write this I am watching an RSD video about women and how they lie about this all the time, then they show a video of women lying and playing hard to get and then they are getting somewhere with the chick. . . Now personally, I see why I have been failing. I am very sensitive to rejection. Especially when I see everything going right, I hate to see all my hard work being put to waste. The thing is, it was never wasted, I just made the mistake of listening to women's bullshit. As I write this I know this will continue to be a problem for me, and I will still be sensitive to rejection, even that I know is not real. At least I know where to go from here.