So I am a salsa dancer, and I am pretty good. Been going to salsa clubs for a few years. I Hate spoken game and try to reduce it as much as possible. It does happen every once in a while where I bang a chick without barely ever saying anything to her just from dancing with her off and on for an hour or two.

So this chick I first met at a club like 3 months ago, pretty cute short little blonde, kinda scrappy personality. I know I made an impression on her because a couple days later at a different club she was in her car in front of the club (which was strangely closed) and called me by name. She was talking with someone else and they were trying to figure out what to do now that the club was closed. I was dismayed and wanted to go home since I had work early in the morning, so I left what was probably an opportunity with her fairly uninterestedly.

I feel like she must not have liked that, because next time I saw her she treated me the same way, and the feeling was much different from the fairly interested feeling from before. Oh well, there were other girls to dance with, I did not mind much.

Fast forward to a few months later yesterday, have not seen this chick since, and yet while I am standing around after a bit of dancing, she comes up to me looking for a dance. She comments that I am a good lead and dancer, and she is dancing a *little* dirty. It can get a lot dirtier than that though, and while she seems to be somewhat interested, it feels like she is trying to ACT uninterested, kinda looking around, not looking me in the eye. When I try to turn up the dirty dancing, she kinda pushes away which is like, ok, she still wants to dance and is maybe interested in me but I can tell if I wanna bang this chick theres a talk job that needs to happen. I just feel it's strange, cause when I first met her the same dirty dancing that she is now stepping back from is what got her remembering my name when I first met her.

One last thing that makes me feel she is still interested, is that when I was taking another break, I was watching her dance with another guy. During her dance, I noticed she was looking at me a couple times. Felt like she wanted to see if I noticed or not.

So, I feel like she is playing hard to get. The thing is, I don't play that game. When chicks do that I jump to dance with another chick, and take home whoever is the most dtf. Plus, every time, EVERY TIME WITHOUT FAIL when I CHASE a chick it does not work. It's the needyness, that feeling comes up, I display it and I can just see the attraction dying. That's why one of my rules is that I do not chase, ever. No inviting for dinner or dates or buying anything for her. Nothing. Not even 5 bucks of anything. Better to not chase and still have a chance, then to chase and have her lose all attraction.

Still, I do want to bang this chick, I feel there is a decent chance here, I just need to figure out how to deal with this instead of my usual "jump to a more willing chick" tactic. Any help would be appreciated.