I dance salsa at a few different clubs here in San Diego. Tonight was a club that I usually don't like, its the worst of the 3 I go to, but can sometimes be worth it and I was bored so what the hell.

So tonight the club was full enough, a lot of newbies, I was perturbed because the night started off with me thinking I was gonna be bored with the selection but it got better. There is this one superfine blonde who goes dancing at these clubs sometimes, selective with her choice of dancer and has a fairly holier than thou attitude. I am a pretty good dancer and women do have fun dancing with me, but the blonde has declined to dance with me before so I just focus on dancing with other girls right in front of her so she can see other girls having fun and not her.

So I danced with a few girls. They all have fun, but there is a notable resistance to any flirty escalation moves, the kind of resistance that tells me they want some talking in before I escalate. No matter, I can dance with other girls and resume some convo with whoever I want later. I notice blondie was watching me with her friend. My moves are kinda hard to miss, they can be pretty flashy, especially when I am dancing right in front of you. I catch blondie dancing with some guy who is worse than me and not having much fun. Serves her right.

So I am taking a break dancing with other girls, wondering how I am going to get blondie to dance with me, when a girl comes out of the crowd and asks me to dance. I know this girl, she asked me to dance at a different venue on Sunday night, and she asked me to dance that night too. I should have already got the hint but im a dense motherfucker. Anyway, we dance, she recognizes we danced Sunday. She is very into it. The DJ switches from salsa music to bachata, and we dance again, about 3 dances worth, which is unusual, as people typically switch partners after every dance. This time I kinda get the hint, and I am really putting the moves on her. We get to the dirty stage as outlined in my first post here, and she is half into it. It's a strange feeling of her being into it but... there is some little resistance somewhere, I am not sure what.

Anyway, the bachata ends, and usually people switch partners for this, but she asks for another dance! I happily oblige, and put some obviously flirty moves in, where I caress her face while looking at her lips. She's into it. She's down for me to make a move.

So this time after the song ends, I tell her I need a break, and she should come to the exit area for some fresh air. She agrees, and we get to a quiet little corner near the exit. I small talk her for a bit, all the while looking at her with an obvious "I wanna fuck you" face.

She says, "I need to go get my purse." Now at the time I did not pick up that she was saying this because she was expecting to leave with me, I thought she was making an excuse to get away. I tell her I will show her a good place to hide her purse. We go get it, I show her the place, and we go back outside. Small talk, yadayada, I wanna fuck you eyes. During the small talk she says, "I am kinda seeing someone right now". This throws me off. I am not into banging other dudes girlfriends, but in the moment I did not realize she is just seeing someone, its not her boyfriend, and there is a reason she is here at the club even though she is seeing someone. Unfortunately I take this as her turning me down, so I ask if she is going to be at the other club Sunday, to which she says yes. I say good, well maybe I will see you again. I ask if I can get her number so we should talk some time, and she says she can give me her facebook. I completely missed what I should have done here, which was just have been forward and taken her to my car for the quick bang she was looking for. Oh well. I get her facebook, but she checks it first to see what she has on there. She probably does not go on there very often. Oh well, I am sure I will see her at the other club, and that time, I will be ready. I get a hug, I go back into the club and she leaves. It was a bit early, and I realize later, she had barely danced with anyone but me. She wanted me to take her home. Fuck. I don't have this part of the game down. Hopefully by Sunday I will.