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[–]Murfdigidy 2 points3 points4 points 9 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Totally understand and get what you're saying but I like a good shoulder touch after she says something I agree or even disagree with.
For instance she says I like corn, you respond....i totally feel you (as you Graze her shoulder with your hand). Just a quick hand on her shoulder or arm. ) This works easily as well when disagreeing....she says I hate corn, you say, what you can't be serious can you? corn is awesome (as you say it you touch her shoulder to emphasize what you're saying.)
Make the kino quick in the beginning before building more comfort. Obviously corn is irrelevant just giving u an example. The key is to emphasize the scenario, I always lay kino around points I'm making, to increase my dominance so to speak
[–]Zoidberg22 1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
True. Gotta be better I guess
[–]Murfdigidy 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Good YouTube videos in kino check them
[–]bjlmag 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link
The answer is always the same. You have to actually practice. If you had been practicing rather than posting from multiple accounts over the last month or two you might not still be asking the same questions.
[–]Zoidberg22 -1 points0 points1 point 9 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link
Did you not read the post? I have practiced it's just that kino hasn't happened at all.
[–]bjlmag 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
I did read the post, as I've read your dozens of other, nearly identical posts.
I have practiced kino hasn't happened at all
I have practiced
kino hasn't happened at all
Pick one. You haven't practiced if it hasn't ever happened.
[–]Zoidberg22 -1 points0 points1 point 9 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
Meant to say I have practiced, but kino hasn't progressed past incidental touch.
[–]bjlmag 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
hasn't progressed past incidental touch
Exactly. You haven't practiced.
[–]Zoidberg22 -1 points0 points1 point 9 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Huh? Kino is light touching in this case. Touching a girls abdomen would be weird after just meeting them. I followed the escalation ladder and just went with the first one to be safe
[–]bjlmag 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
I only put up with you in case somebody else reads these threads at this point. Do you have any idea what you're talking about or what your goal is?
I want to get more touchy kino hasn't happened at all kino hasn't progressed past incidental touch kino is light touching in this case
I want to get more touchy
kino hasn't progressed past incidental touch
kino is light touching in this case
What on earth are you trying to improve? Why do you ask how to do more kino if you are going to respond that you're afraid and unwilling to do more kino? What do you want?
[–]Zoidberg22 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I meant to say that my touches have all been incidental or very light. Nothing that shows sexual intent. I am trying to improve the physical part with girls as I believe none of them have seen me in a sexual way, more of a friendly one, which at times is frustrating. I want to do more, but again, it just feels so unnatural to me as I've been told always growing up to not show sexuality at all. I am willing to do kino, but again just hard to know when to do it as for example just touching her out of nowhere during an approach might be taken the wrong way. My goal is to obviously make connections with a girl, make out and eventually lose my virginity.
[–]bjlmag 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
You know what you need to do and you claim you want it. I can't force you to take the action you still need to take. Good luck.
[–]Zoidberg22 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I know I need to take action, just wondering if what I did as I described was wrong
[–]MonkeyFist4150 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
You don't do "kino" (stupid word) on a cold approach. Nobody likes being touched by strangers, and really, the only way to touch a stranger is with an "excuse me" and you really don't want to go down that road with an apology opener. You want to make her feel comfortable enough so that she touches you to signal she's more interested in something other than a chat.
That does make sense.
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