Kino/Escalation Examples

Invalidity · 2013-09-15T15:47:17+00:00

Observe others who do it naturally.

Eye contact is pretty simple and straight forward.

When you tease the girl every now and then, lightly "hit" a girl's shoulder or arm with the back of your arm.

High fives should be straight forward. If you've established a fair amount of attraction, you can even intertwine your fingers with hers after the high five.

There are many ways you can give a girl a hug. I tend to give hugs when I feel like she has done something right.

Isolate a girl and sit next to her. Don't sit across from her. Have your legs close and touching hers preferably. When you're making points you can brush her thighs. You may face some resistance here since the thighs can be a very erogenous zone of the body.

At some point you'll want to develop enough comfort where you can put your arm around her and on her back.

To go for a kiss, try the triangle method. It works like a charm. Pay attention to cues where she wants to kiss you. She may glance at your lips fairly often. She may bite and lick her lips. Pupil dilation can be a tell sometimes, but it can be difficult to tell.

Sir_Psycho_Sexy_ · 2013-09-15T23:20:07+00:00

Here's an example of what NOT to do

L1AM · 2013-09-15T18:12:01+00:00

The easiest way to apply kino, I've found, is when both of you are laughing. First, establish eye contact while talking, do the "sex" eyes — don't look at her with the same vapid expression with which you would regard your bros.

Then, when you laugh, touch her shoulder. Touch her just above the knee when seated. Touch the elbow (only if it feels natural). Be careful not to overdo it. Girls love it to an extent ("You're really physical — I like that."), but if you do it too much, or too quickly, you can end up with "Stop touching me."

Just touch her almost as frequently as you laugh in conversation, and you'll do well.

strppngynglad · 2013-09-16T00:16:14+00:00

I am an uber noob but one night I was flirting with a friend of a friend at a bar. She had curly hair which I LOVE. So I complemented it and touched it - asked if it was ok and of course it was. Any way I escalated from there and F closed. Any way I think touching the hair can be a good start. Use it as a complement (if its pretty, soft, w.e( and say you just really like hair.

I also try to find something on their body that I can examine with both hands - like a bracelet, tattoo on their arm or wrist, maybe even a necklace (brush her collarbone with your fingers).

Those two things have never failed me. Hope that helps!

Title	Kino/Escalation Examples
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Date	September 15, 2013 12:42 PM UTC (12 years ago)
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