Hey. First post here. Not really 100% sure on what the usual subject matter is for the post in this subreddit, but here's my input.
So a little background on myself. I'm 6'2" 175. I have an athletic build, and I've been told I'm very good looking and have a good personality numerous times. Don't mean to sound like a douche. Sorry. My only problem is that I have a bit of a speech problem. I stutter, talk too fast, and mumble a lot. I've tried a lot of things to help, and it's somewhat improved, but it's still obvious.
Anyways, with my speech being a potential roadblock in my way of being good with women, I have learned to look past it by building up my good side. I learned to be confident and not let what anyone thinks phase me. This, mixed with a idgaf attitude, a good smile, good eye contact, and a good grasp on appropriate body language I have overcome my roadblock. It's to the point where I have not once gotten a girl's number, either at the club or anywhere else. They just give me theirs.
I guess if you look past my seemingly selfish post, you can grasp that having confidence and the right attitude can work very well in your favor.
P.S.: If anyone has tips on helping my little speech predicament, feel free to leave a comment.
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