Looking for a guide on being a good conversationalist

UnclassyGentleman · 2016-02-24T02:51:18+00:00

Okay, this is not much of a guide but here are some pointers ->

Lower the fucking bar. Most people who have trouble with conversations think that everything they say should carry meaning/be funny/be witty, what have you. The truth is what you say doesn't really matter much, what matters is the vibe you're giving or the "feel" of the conversation. This doesn't mean say obnoxious shit all the time but rather stop censoring yourself.
Body language and Vocal tonality. In order to have a conversation with someone, the other party needs to hear you first. Train yourself to speak confidently and loudly (not obnoxiously loudly) but loud enough. Your body language also plays an important part in the conversation and so does your eye contact so read up on it.
Incite emotions. Talk about things you find interesting, things you love, things the other party finds interesting, things they love and actively engage yourself in the conversation. The difference between a bad conversation and a good conversation is the energy involved in it. And if you're passionate, the energy will be more and the conversation will be better.
Say stupid shit, laugh, have fun. A conversation is not a business transaction. The objective is to have fun. You thought of something stupid, just say it. Most genuine laughter comes from stupid things.
Make it sexual. If your objective is to fuck the girl, you should escalate your conversations along with your kino. Start touching on topics relating to sex, slowly build it up. It's easier to start fucking when you're talking about fucking.
Be playful. This relates to point no 1. Don't take conversations too seriously, have fun, keep it light. Nobody wants to engage in a political debate, everyone wants to fuck.

Bigjohnthug · 2016-02-24T04:07:34+00:00

How to win friends and influence people. In short, get them to talk and genuinely engage with listening and asking questions.

raven3113 · 2016-02-24T05:28:37+00:00

How tall are you?

MichealWestern · 2016-02-24T22:49:30+00:00

i have this problem i can't seem to start / hold it :P any advice please ?

Overnight_Delivery · 2016-02-25T17:37:44+00:00

Anyone know of a good scientific style psychology book on conversation?

Title	Looking for a guide on being a good conversationalist
Author	TylerrTheCreator
Upvotes	8
Comments	11
Date	February 24, 2016 1:34 AM UTC (10 years ago)
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