Hi Reddit,

I (M25) am based in London and looking for a wingmen to help me conquer approach anxiety, which is particularly annoying for me as I am otherwise fairly confident.

Specifically, I am looking for someone to accompany me in public spaces and/or bars, holding me accountable to approach women on a weekly basis (up to 1-2 hours) for the rest of the year.

I am looking to improve over time, so I wish to start by asking women general questions scaling up to approaching with direct intent. I must however clarify that my main focus is the building the habit of approaching, rather than pulling.

Ideally, the person helping me is reliable, socially confident and not scared to call me out on my behaviour. Even better, if they have experience as an accountability partner or coaching.

I am also happy to pay for someone’s time. If you’re interested, DM me so we can discuss further on what I’m looking for!