So recently met this girl and we were dating for about 3 months. I was just out of a releshinship so wanted to take it slowly, and we did, but after a few months of hanging out and dates I really started to fall for her and I knew she liked me back as she told me numerous times. When I finally asked her out she said she wasn't ready (she herself was just out of a bad breakup) and she said she thought she was ready until the moment came. I assured her there was no rush we can take as long as it needs. However since then more so since I told her I feel the same way about her as she did me, she seems less intrested than before, we haven't had a date in awhile. I suggested 2 recent dates but she couldn't make it. I'm just confused. Why is it as soon as I show attraction/intrest back, hers suddenly wanes or she seems less intrested?