I discovered the Seduction community maybe 2.5 years ago, after experiencing a LJBF that pretty much shattered me. I read all the content available at the time. I got pretty good. After about 6 months I found a girl I wanted to keep around.

I ran the tightest game. From our very first interaction where I ran a semi-natural cocky funny game to 3 months into the relationship where we first said "I love you" to each other, everything was perfect.

Soon after I got comfortable, I got lazy. I stopped taking care of myself I stopped working on myself. My inner game shattered as a result my outer game was gone. I was also going through a major transition in my life and went through almost 8 months of depression, before I actually went to a doctor and treated it.

The point is that our relationship is breaking down. And I think it's me. I'm no longer the man she fell for. I'm a pale shadow of him. I'm dedicated to going back to the person I was before I stopped caring. I need to continue being a PUA because when I'm not one I'm nobody.

Seduction community teaches how to get a girl you want. But how do I keep one? Any relationship management 101 stuff from a PUA perspective?

I know this may not really be your thing, /r/seduction but I sure as shit am not going to /r/dating_advice