Hear me out bcuz this is pretty good. You’ll need to read the backstory for it to make sense.

Backstory + reasoning: I’m a guy who would generally be regarded quote “ugly”. I’m tall at around 6 foot 3 but I have borderline klinefelters syndrome meaning I can’t put on muscle mass to save my life (bench press stuck at 155lbs). I’m also bald and have a bad overbite (too broke to fix it)

I tried mainstream strategies like squaring off, being confident and going direct. Result was “I have a boyfriend” 99% of the time and a flaky phone number 1% of the time. 0 percent of my approaches led to dates. I had the uncanny ability to turn every girl in a nightclub into lesbians.

The tactic: 1st method

Go indirect and act friend zoney (hear me out). This goes against conventional wisdom but if you’re at a disadvantage you need to make it easier to get attention from girls

Your opener will be along the lines of “hey I’m trying to meet new people since I’m new to the city. Want to have a conversation?” You can also say “want to chat a little bit” or another way. Note: it’s much more effective on tourists. This isn’t magic, you’ll still get a lot of bf objections and no’s but I’d say 20% will say yes to the idea of having a conversation with you. The science behind this is when she agrees she subconsciously allocates atleast 5 minutes to talking to you, making the instant date way easier.

If she asks “why do you want to have a conversation with me?” Your response could be “oh I’m just a social butterfly. I like to travel and meet new people”. Or “I’m trying to sharpen the saw on my communication skills before an important meeting”

After about 3-4 minutes say “hey my legs are getting kinda sore let’s walk and talk. Don’t worry I don’t bite haha”.

At this point she’ll likely be on the fence and if this is the case use a false time constraint. “I actually got to go and meet a friend pretty soon but I need to stretch my legs, they’re falling asleep”. If she complies easily you can skip the false time constraint

Once on the walk you can lead to a coffee place and begin to do light kino and begin to think about how you’re going to pull or go for a solid number

2nd method:

This is simpler. Look to do a low investment bounce in the area you’re in. Let’s say you are having small talk with a set from daygame. If it’s sunny you can say “let’s go over here the sun is in my eyes” and move with her a few feet into the shade. Or in a mall, “let’s go over there, I don’t want to get in peoples way”. If she agrees, you can continue walking since there’s inertia from beginning to walk in the first place.

Strategy at play:

“Excuse me. I’m new here from Toronto, do you know of any good restaurants around here?” Her: “uh idk I’m new here too” Me: “Wow yeah you do have an accent where are you from Her: “Spain” Me: “that’s so cool. By the way it’s a bit random but I’m trying to meet new people do you want to have a conversation? Don’t worry I’m just a social butterfly and I’m just trying to socialize with you” Her: “uhm” Me: “yeah I actually got to go pretty soon but I have a minute or 2” Her: “sure why not”

Conversation goes 3 minutes

Me: “hey, this sidewalk it pretty busy I don’t want to block anyone haha, let’s go over there”

You and her are walking

Me “hey. My brain needs a little caffeine. I’m going to pop into here for a quick coffee, come join me we can continue our conversation”