Made a mistake

LingeringGnome · 2018-04-07T23:52:19+00:00

"Hey, I wanted to be totally upfront with you. I'm only feeling a friend vibe. I do wish you the best, though!".

The bull elk is direct and honest with women, good or bad news. Her feelings will be hurt, but at least you're not wasting her time. And this is called *acting like a man*.

ThrowawayPUA · 2018-04-08T02:49:00+00:00

"Hey I have this friend Mike I'd like you to meet. He's a great guy and I bet he's just your type."

Note that Mike does not have to exist. You never see him because he's always too busy working with Médecins Sans Frontières in far away war zones, saving injured orphans and puppies. But I'll introduce him to you as soon as I see him.

She will get the idea you're not interested, and probably doesn't care about Mike.

hunterpua · 2018-04-08T20:47:04+00:00

I had a friend ask me the same exact thing. I told him this is an unpleasant lesson that a lot of girls learn. If you're attractive you can't avoid hurting someone's feelings. You just can't say yes to everyone that is attracted to you and there are so many people who are attracted to you that you aren't even aware of so just by getting a girlfriend you're already hurting some other girl's feelings. He looked at me as if a massive lightbulb lit up in his head. He got over his issues with women feeling hurt in that moment.

As long as you're not actively being a dick and going out of your way to hurt women you're fine. Just let her down easy. Still gonna hurt but you'd be doing the right thing.

This is why some girls get bitchy when rejecting guys because as you know, its pretty stressful when you're trying to be delicate with someone's feelings and some girls have just done this so many times that they've gotten to a point where they're like "Fuck it! This is just way too stressful! I'm just gonna stop giving a fuck."

Chewbaca_Townie · 2018-04-09T13:00:34+00:00

Tell her you really like hanging out with her and that you are not interested in a monogamous relationship

Title	Made a mistake
Author	santaprisca
Upvotes	1
Comments	4
Date	April 7, 2018 11:43 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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