Hey all, I'm new to this and I have two questions. First, how does one maintain integrity and values? I'm reading The Game right now and I don't really like most of the people Neil learned from. I don't like lying to people, especially with the ulterior motive of sex, and I am a generally positive person, so I don't like the idea of freeze outs, negs, and similar tactics. Anyone share these same issues? I've been watching some videos as well, and the person who seems to have a similar mindest (other than Neil, and perhaps he covers this issue later in The Game), is David DeAngelo.

Okay, question two is unrelated. If it should be a separate post, please let me know. I'm married in a polyamorous relationship. My wife is very encouraging of me meeting other women. Anyone have any specific tips on being honest from the outset and how to approach women with the barrier of a ring? Again, I don't like lying, so I won't hide this. I'm totally cool if a woman's own values won't let her date a poly married man, but how do I not come off as a creep approaching women?

Thanks!