So I matched with this girl when I restarted tinder after taking a break for a while and we met up for the first date I've had in over a year (bad break up). Even though we just had coffee I honestly had a blast and she seems like a really nice girl, so we went on a hike the next week and last Sunday she came over and we watched a movie and cuddled a bit.

Which all sounds great but the thing is I'm admittedly weird and weirdly picky with my taste in women and I just don't find her that attractive. At first I thought sleeping with her might help to get over my ex, but leading her on and using her just makes me a prick so I don't really want to sleep with her and I definitely don't want to date someone I'm not attracted to, but I liked spending time with her. I don't want to lead her on so I haven't texted her in a few days and I kind of feel like an asshole for it, but then I feel like I'd be a bigger jerk for leading her on.

Obviously I really am just terrible with women and have no idea what to do so I thought maybe I could find some input here.