Dont be threatened by the title, this isn't a "against women" post. Its just anidea I read of an old blog on therationalmale that got me thinking.

They say "both men and women obectify. Where as us men see women as sex-objects, women se men as success-objects".

Not gonna unpack all of that, but it did get me thinking. If youve ever had a nice guy period, youve soendt enught time around women to hear it all. "I want a guy thats tall, handsome, big d*ck, lots of money", and in middle/high school where everyone seems to objectify, all the boys adore the hot girl wothout knowing her, and the girls adore the football captain/cool guy/tallented artist. Somethimes even the charming valedictorian.

Now how can this help you? Well, first of all, in the same way youd probbably be 100% down to sleep with a woman with the ideal body, you dont mind stepping down if you like the girl and she has an energy that matches you. So what says that it wont go the oposite way.

Second, this perspective makes it more likely that women, like men, talk the talk more than they walk the walk. Im sure you were super attracted to your ex, or current gf, even if she isnt Gal Gadot. Again, this can go both ways.

But lastly, why was the football captain, the coolest guy, the talented artist, the charming nerd, or mr.genetics the most attractive? Why is the idea of changing a bad boy so attractive to women? Same reason. Superficially soeaking, they want something to brag about, and that they are attracted to. Just like we do.

Now there is limits on the genetic department. I have seen weightloss, hairstyles, and style create new men, but its still not a guarantee. Luckily, you have the other option. The potential of success. The obese buissniessman is dating a supermodel. Because he is rich right? But the half-shitty singer in a punk band who is barely getting buy is dating her model coworker. And the wannabe pickup artist who has average looks and income has hooked up with them.

If youre not seeing the point yet, it is the purpose that attracts them. Your potential of success. Your willingness to grab the world by the throat and say "Im gonna do this".

If youve ever known a handsome guy who was super popular with women who got ugly later on, you probably know that he is still great with women. Because he was thaught a way to behave. He was thaught from a young age (due to luck) that he was worth everything, and had the power to do/get annyone.

These were just my thoughts on the quote. It just matched with a lot Ive seen and heard in my life.