So recently Ive been on the dating apps , and I get a-lot of matches at least 30 per week , the only challenge is that I am at work most of the day and I dont have time to keep the convo going , I went on 5 dates so far but It takes a-lot of time and texting before getting to a point of going on the date , I see a-lot of bullshit advice saying set the date within the fist couple of messages which is not true , most women do not feel comfortable going on a date with a guy they havent had much communication with and this significantly raises the flake rate , what is the solution , because dating apps are very fast paced , It a girl messages me or I message her its hard to keep it flowing if there is always a 4+hour gap , the convo eventually dies and I either stop responding or she stops responding , I also feel like the attention im getting is addictive and distracting, should I just get off the apps completely or how do I manage it , a-lot of women on the apps just wanna talk and talk without actually setting the date which is also another factor , what is the best solution for this.