Hey, Seddit.

I'm a loser who admittedly has been suffering from one-girl-syndrome forever and have recently been trying to come out of it. But small story before I begin my question. When I was in high school, the other kids seemed to get girls either without much effort or surprisingly quickly. It didn't really bother me, I was from Utah and getting girls in Utah is supposed to lead to marriage asap which I wasn't wanting. But after numerous friendzones and realizing that suffering with one girl for no reason is hurting my self esteem and whatnot, I've decided to explore my options, so to speak. However, I think back to high school and realize part of what made me not want to pursue girls is realizing it seemed like everyone else had game naturally, and I had no experience in this area.

My friend was in a similar boat and he reacted by reading online of how to get girls and the like and I, admittedly, thought it was a little pathetic. It seemed ingenuine to me trying to find tricks to get girls, you're not presenting yourself you're presenting a strategy. Since then I've felt a few tips couldn't hurt, and still feel like executing those tips are kind of not being true to who I am or whatever.

I was just wondering what seddit has to say in response to that mentality. I know it's a ridiculous one to have, I'm trying to get out of it.