Mind games

ArtisticBlackh3ro · 2025-08-14T14:33:09+00:00

Ask yourself... Do I need this woman? The answer is no. You want her. So be the difference between needy and show her you want her by taking the lead. This includes guiding her to the seat you want her to sit in (I like to guide her by lightly touching the small of her back) . Asking her thought-provoking questions. Provide her with hypothetical situations, and let her answer. Ask her about her past and be genuine. Be confident, assertive, and bold, wrapped up in a nice flirtatious, demeanor. Do all of this while holding her gaze longer, because you want to. Remember, you're the CEO of your life and you're interviewing her to be in yours. To be playfully combative, you can even jokingly tease "You're killing this interview" especially if the date is going well. "Good luck" - Taken

appmanga · 2025-08-14T15:43:24+00:00

I'm thinking of doing a protracted push pull technique where I'm all touchy feely and affectionate, then I go to the bathroom and come back and don't touch her and rarely make eye contact.

You do you, but I think this is silly. It's my belief that you have to build affinity, connection, and trust. Do those things have to be real versions? No, they just have to feel real.

norwegiandoggo · 2025-08-14T19:40:34+00:00

Today's dating market exists and is thriving.

Casual sex is common.

Women are just equally guarded as they have always been. There's no difference from previous times.

You don't have to "future fake" to get women into bed.

You don't need to play hacks or mind games either.

Your worldview needs several updates in my humble opinion. The main reset in your view should, in my opinion again, be as follows

Don't try to trick her into bed. If she likes you and she likes sex - she will want sex with you. So you are both heading towards the same goal. You are cooperating..you're on the same team!

You are not "tricking her" to do something she doesn't want to do. That is outdated thinking built on this wrong assumption that women don't want or like sex.

Neat_Wolf3778 · 2025-08-14T14:32:46+00:00

My man this is the fastest way to be labeled a weirdo. Women aren’t falling for hot and cold shit anymore, you’re 7 years too late.

Also, the whole tricking women into sex is giving rapey vibes. You should seek therapy.

Interesting_Neat3106 · 2025-08-14T16:20:45+00:00

The modern chick's who r pretty have heaps of unstagram followers are lretty much hoes coming for a way tk extra material possesses from men.

Find a real girl they oht there but u have tk go through the seas of dumb hoes to spot one

HistorianOk2573 · 2025-08-15T00:01:06+00:00

- In today's dating market, if such a thing can even be said to exist, casual sex is rare and women are more guarded than ever.

Completely untrue. Women in history have never been as promiscuous as now. As a guy who lived in different apartments with college girls, most young girls between 18 and 25 are fucking so many dudes that they never want to see again after fucking once.

- I feel like the classic techniques don't work and seduction is played out. It seems you have to future fake the fuck out of women to get them to sleep with you,

Nah, the main problem guys have is that they are dishonest and unautentic as fuck, always trying to control the outcome, always trying to read women like they are some type of computer where the right input will get them a certain outcome, treating women like they are defusing a live bomb.

They just can't be themselves, because they are always trying to do the "correct" set of actions and trying to figure out what a woman wants exactly before making any risky move because they wanna be calculated and have guaranteed results. I can assure you that the girls i live with the guys didn't do shit other than just being honest from the get go and not giving a shit if the girl approves or not, simply expressing how these girls made them feel drawn to them, not out of need but out of genuine pure raw desire that they don't pretend to hide.

- but because of female nature, you risk coming off as low value if you SIMP too hard at the same time.

Simping has to do with trying to prove your worth, or adequacy to a woman, trying to impress her, trying to earn points so that she approves of you. And that, isn't seduction. That's just being performative and fake and doesn't make women feel anything towards guys who do that shit.

- I have a date tonight and I'm thinking of doing a protracted push pull technique where I'm all touchy feely and affectionate, then I go to the bathroom and come back and don't touch her and rarely make eye contact. I'm asking you guys for other hacks that are better than the one I'm thinking.

Women feel drawn to guys who make them feel emotions. This doesn't mean manipulating them or playing absurd games. It means teasing them, flirting, expressing how they cause you to feel in a sexual way so that they can feel your emotional stage too. There is no need to fake intentions, or anything.

You just have to communicate in such a way that they feel something, you don't tell them what you want in a logical way, you make them feel what you want instead by your behaviour, your body language, and by expressing your sexual desire for them. For example the things she makes you feel in terms of attraction. For example:

"The way you are trying so hard not to kiss her right now", "the way you lose concentration when she smiles cute like that, the way your heart rate increases when she does "that" particular thing", "the way her gaze kinda hypnotizes you", the way her touch hits you like a wave, the way her mannersims warm up your heart."

Doing this invites them to feel your sexual desire in a way that is almost contagious if done right. And it's more honest because if you are attracted to someone clearly they make you feel something. And all you are doing is expressing the emotional effects they have on you.

That's how you flirt, not by telling them compliments or descriptions of what good qualities she has, but by expressing the emotional effect her attributes or actions have on you instead.

IGetBoredSometimes23 · 2025-08-15T21:23:52+00:00

I have a date tonight and I'm thinking of doing a protracted push pull technique where I'm all touchy feely and affectionate, then I go to the bathroom and come back and don't touch her and rarely make eye contact.

I'm one day too late, but I'm guessing the strategy of deescalation didn't work.

Just-Shop-3386 · 2025-08-18T01:38:23+00:00

The classic techniques work, tried it haha

Women know what you are doing, they like it. welcome to seduction my friend,love is war

Title	Mind games
Author	ookami597
Upvotes	4
Comments	14
Date	August 14, 2025 1:49 PM UTC (11 months ago)
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