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[–]CapnZebra 1 point2 points3 points 14 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
This is really good advice. It defiantly helped me pull it all together and my game has greatly improved. Thanks!
[–]coyotelime 2 points3 points4 points 14 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Repeat the following out loud: "I am fucking awesome. I don't need others to tell me that I'm fucking awesome, but I do need to tell others about how awesome they are if they ask."
Disclaimer: Avoid thinking/saying "I am better than X." That leads to wanting others' approval of how fucking awesome you are.
[–]Xstream2 1 point2 points3 points 14 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
PRACTICE... it'll be deeply ingrained into your mentality eventually
[–]AlwaysLeaveANote 0 points1 point2 points 14 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
What has been working for me is mindfulness and congruence. Congruence is an alignment between your desires and the physical manifestation of that desire (words, tonality, body language, etc). Mindfulness is essentially extroversion. It's being committed to what's happening at that exact moment.
I find that with those two premises, as well as a basic understanding of the constructed limitations of social dynamics (I.e. you can't start screaming and get what you want) you have an unbelievable amount of control. Volition is a powerful thing, my friend. Best of luck to you.
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