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| 1 | Approaching girls you aren't interested in...my flow of interactions goes: social -> flirty -> sexual I'll be in a social vibe for everyone I talk to (male/female, hot/not) if they're attractive I'll move into flirty and then eventually to sexual | /r/seduction | 22/08/12 02:48 AM |
| 1 | Has anyone read the manhood 101 ebook? If so, what are your thoughts on it.post a link, I'm too lazy to look it up | /r/seduction | 22/08/12 02:45 AM |
| 1 | Can I convince myself that I can be physically attractive?I used to be almost exactly like you (5'10 - 135) now I'm 170ish, get expensive protein powder and lift weights to the point of maxing out your lifts (none of that do 8 reps 3 times crap). I'll be honest with you I get checked out A LOT now... like a ton (and it feels great) but it really doesn't matter in terms of getting the girl. I met Alexander from RSD a couple weeks ago and we were talking about working out and he said the same thing. | /r/seduction | 22/08/12 02:44 AM |
| 1 | One-year anniversary in the game! My cock ring is now 24 caratEpic man! I am in the process of writing up my "one year report", although mine won't be as impressive since I've only been going out 4 nights a week for the past 3 months instead of 12... Thats SOOOOO fucking key for newbies to understand, if you go out A LOT this shit will work insanely well, if you only go out once in a while and read TONS of theory your game is going nowhere. Cheers | /r/seduction | 21/08/12 07:06 AM |
| 1 | Met a Girl in Canada, how do I keep her attracted to me?oh shit, I probably saw you there Saturday. Thats also where Alex from RSD decided to run bootcamps when he came here last weekend (met him on the free tour) | /r/seduction | 20/08/12 04:31 AM |
| 0 | Met a Girl in Canada, how do I keep her attracted to me?Winnipeg represent! | /r/seduction | 20/08/12 02:36 AM |
| 1 | Trying to "steal sets"Depends... other guys WILL do this to you at some point and if you don't know how to defend against it you'll likely lose the girl. This is a good learning experience. Also these are usually the other "player" type guys who have been hitting on a bunch of other girls that night... not going up to some poor guy who seems like he's in love with the girl but too shy to do anything | /r/seduction | 20/08/12 01:55 AM |
| 2 | Attractive to women: 1. Good looks, 2. Status (and wealth), 3. Masculinityyou're missing out on a lot of factors... and not all 3 of those are equally important. And "masculinity" is a VERY subjective term, I think "confident" is an overall better term for part 3 | /r/seduction | 20/08/12 01:22 AM |
| 5 | Friends keeping me down?Most of my friends that I hang out with now are my wingmen (who all know about pickup and are actively practicing it with me, so I don't have the problem. Sometimes newer wings that we bring into our circle won't be socially calibrated enough and will do stupid shit like saying things within earshot of her (like you mentioned), in that case I'll just tell them not to do that in the future (and give a brief logical explanation). My other friends who aren't into pickup (and don't know much about i… | /r/seduction | 19/08/12 10:48 PM |
| 8 | Glancing backthe theory behind it was that the guy wasn't putting her on a pedastal and kissing her ass like all the other guys | /r/seduction | 19/08/12 03:52 AM |
| 1 | If she demonstrates she's not interested without verbalizing, should you move on?he wasn't there because he was too busy fucking your mother | /r/seduction | 19/08/12 01:58 AM |
| 1 | If she demonstrates she's not interested without verbalizing, should you move on?obviously you do need to approach more if you can't understand why that girl was so obviously creeped out by you. | /r/seduction | 19/08/12 01:45 AM |
| 1 | If she demonstrates she's not interested without verbalizing, should you move on?judging by your user name and the fact that NONE of your comments have ever been upvoted I'm guessing you're a troll (also the stupidity of your content blows my mind). All I did was give you advice on how to improve your approaches. If you ONLY wanted feedback on what to do if they didn't seem interested you should have said so instead of giving a large chunk of text about your chode behaviour. you said you only approach 3 girls a week, I approach about 40-60, how do you "understand the nature … | /r/seduction | 19/08/12 01:16 AM |
| 1 | If she demonstrates she's not interested without verbalizing, should you move on?Her body language was cold and unresponsive because she sensed you were nervous/needy because you psyched yourself out. You need to work on approaching confidently to fix that from happening (if she senses you're nervous to talk to her it's near impossible to recover from) | /r/seduction | 18/08/12 05:48 PM |
| 1 | If she demonstrates she's not interested without verbalizing, should you move on?I'm giving you constructive feedback, if it sounds harsh at all its for your own good. If you purposefully wait to be nervous before approaching they will always be uninterested (being nervous is EXTREMELY unattractive to women) | /r/seduction | 18/08/12 05:39 PM |
| 1 | If she demonstrates she's not interested without verbalizing, should you move on?so many things for you to correct... "I approach about 3 girls a week on average" (do at least 10x that many) "Generally I like to wait until I'm nervous because then I know she's worth approaching, otherwise I'm just talking to a random stranger for no reason. Also, there's a real rush to letting that fear build up and facing it, and from what I can tell the girl tends to get swept up in it too."... NO NO NO NO, Girls DO NOT want you to be nervous (thats extremely unalpha male like) it subcommu… | /r/seduction | 18/08/12 04:26 PM |
| 1 | I met him on Thursday, coolest guy I ever met. Here's a great video on attraction he shot in my townno doubt, but his advice is legit. Plus don't forget that physical attraction is only a small part of pickup, I've seen better looking guys (no homo-ish) who strike out A LOT because they have no game what so ever | /r/seduction | 14/08/12 02:26 AM |
| 1 | Not sure if this is the right subreddit, but I need help. BADLY.lol wtf | /r/seduction | 13/08/12 05:38 AM |
| 1 | How do you deal with being super afraid?that fear never completely goes away but over time you'll get used to it. One of the things I do at the begining of the night (at clubs/bars) is to get a drink and go upto a few groups and go "CHEERS" (and hold your drink up to cheers) it'll get you into state (its horrible for actual opens usually, but its great to break the social barrier at the begining of the night) | /r/seduction | 13/08/12 03:40 AM |
| 5 | DAE who has mastered PUA feel like "empty" inside?define "mastered" | /r/seduction | 13/08/12 03:39 AM |
| 7 | I constantly feel that I'm too boring to have a girlfriend.have you tried drinking and clubbing? Shits FUN. BUT... if you REALLY don't want to for whatever reason, take up hobbies that are badass (like rock climbing or kick boxing). But I'll be completely honest with you, you do sound boring, chicks usually prefer outgoing social guys who partake in fun shit. Why exactly don't you like parties and stuff? | /r/seduction | 13/08/12 03:32 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Fighting through pain to gain strengthit was organic (so not something I had canned), I actually didn't open the second girl with it... but the girl was talking to her friend and I butted in with "LIER, I didn't hear most of that but you're lying", she lol'd and started qualifying... | /r/seduction | 13/08/12 03:02 AM |
| 1 | Being more approachableMOST people don't approach random people that they don't know. Its THE MOST FUNDAMENTAL part of the game that YOU need to approach people | /r/seduction | 12/08/12 08:03 PM |
| 6 | [FR] Failing to approach - againAh, you're about to experience something beautiful that I call "the snap", basically you get so discouraged and pissed at yourself for so long that the anger is more powerful than the fear and you fucking go for it | /r/seduction | 08/08/12 01:42 AM |
| 3 | Seddit, what are your go-to questions/ jokes/ games etc. to spark life back into a dying conversation?this one evolved from an opener of mine to a 'copy-and-paste' line that can get used almost anywhere you want to spike back up the interaction... you say "are you having a super kickass night!?", she responds, you say "scale of 1-to-chuck norris how many asses is it kicking?"... | /r/seduction | 08/08/12 01:39 AM |
| 1 | my "drug test" routineAs an adult, I can tell you this works. | /r/seduction | 07/08/12 04:13 PM |
| 1 | I'm awesome on paper, but terrible at actually getting girls. Where do I start?kino progression is just like any other part of pickup, you'll start off simple and gradually get better and more comfortable with it. Start with touching her on the shoulder to get her attention or when you say things, then work on high-fives where you try to temporaliy hold her hand for a couple seconds, etc | /r/seduction | 07/08/12 08:06 AM |
| 4 | What to do when competing for a HByou should discuss it before you "compete" so that you don't cause any friction in your bro-ship. But, if you're in a situation where its not obvious who gets to go first (i.e. you both just start talking to her) if you can out-funny him thats the best thing, also touch her more than he does and DO NOT BE REACTIVE OR SHOW SIGNS OF JEALOUSY | /r/seduction | 07/08/12 08:01 AM |
| 4 | Cocky vs Confidence. When is the line crossed?Luckily, this is my specialty (combining both), the trick is to be an asshole while making the girl laugh at the same time. I'm naturally funny so it might be hard for a lot of guys to pull off, but basically you can say things that seem like you're a total jackass/full of yourself... IF AND ONLY IF it comes across like you're joking. Think of it like Stephen Colbert who says things that makes him seem like the biggest ass hole in the world... but you know its just an act so he's not actually a … | /r/seduction | 07/08/12 07:58 AM |
| 1 | my "drug test" routineI'm glad it worked ;) | /r/seduction | 07/08/12 07:47 AM |
| 1 | my "drug test" routineI then switch to act like "ok you're not on heroin... must be ecstacy then", it really doesn't matter | /r/seduction | 07/08/12 07:27 AM |
| 1 | my "hand hold" kino routineYAY I inspired something! (good routine btw) | /r/seduction | 06/08/12 11:59 PM |
| 4 | my "drug test" routineIts called joking around, the vast majority of women won't be on heroin thats the point... its an absurd accusation which is what makes it funny/playfull for them | /r/seduction | 06/08/12 10:31 PM |
| 2 | my "drug test" routineyou know so little | /r/seduction | 06/08/12 10:17 PM |
| 5 | my "drug test" routinedoesn't matter; got shoes (DM;GS) | /r/seduction | 06/08/12 08:27 PM |
| 2 | my "drug test" routineit'll make for one hell of a story | /r/seduction | 06/08/12 08:16 PM |
| 1 | my "drug test" routinethanks | /r/seduction | 06/08/12 08:16 PM |
| 2 | my "drug test" routineshes a keeper | /r/seduction | 06/08/12 08:15 PM |
| 3 | my "drug test" routinethen lolzgasm | /r/seduction | 06/08/12 08:15 PM |
| 3 | my "drug test" routinecoming soon (e.g. my opeing routine that gets hot girls to give you their drinks while you get locked into set) | /r/seduction | 06/08/12 08:14 PM |
| 0 | my "drug test" routinenot at all, the whole thing takes maybe 20 seconds and its all smooth and playful (assuming the delivery doesn't get fucked up) | /r/seduction | 06/08/12 08:13 PM |
| 2 | my "drug test" routine"you want a fork there chief?" (dude eating salad with his fingers) | /r/seduction | 06/08/12 08:12 PM |
| 11 | my "drug test" routine"yep, ALL of them... literally every one, related to me or not... ages 6 and up... all of them" | /r/seduction | 06/08/12 09:02 AM |
| 3 | my "drug test" routinewhat? | /r/seduction | 06/08/12 07:49 AM |
| 8 | my "drug test" routinethen marry that quality gal before some other lucky guy gets her | /r/seduction | 06/08/12 06:18 AM |
| 2 | my "drug test" routineNo girl ever has been... I can easily get away with way "creepier" stuff... if the guy is confident and you've already had the "this is a fun, flirty interaction" then you won't care. Its not some creepy guy coming out of nowhere and doing this | /r/seduction | 06/08/12 05:32 AM |
| 72 | my "drug test" routineshiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiieeeeeettt | /r/seduction | 06/08/12 05:29 AM |
| 1 | my "drug test" routineI usually act like they're on ecstacy when I do the pupil test | /r/seduction | 06/08/12 05:15 AM |
| 12 | my "drug test" routineis that the qwop spin-off | /r/seduction | 06/08/12 04:39 AM |
| 8 | my "drug test" routinetouching | /r/seduction | 06/08/12 04:35 AM |
| 7 | my "drug test" routineyou get her to trade you her shoes for a needle filled with water (note: you lie about what the liquid is) #profit | /r/seduction | 06/08/12 04:32 AM |
| 11 | my "drug test" routinehaha thanks, go try it on guys... I give my female friends pick up advice and lines all the time | /r/seduction | 06/08/12 04:31 AM |
| 5 | my "drug test" routineI've said worse shit (like actually saying "heroin") and it doesn't matter, it REALLY doesn't matter what you say as long as you can make her realize that your a funny/fun guy who's just having fun | /r/seduction | 06/08/12 04:31 AM |
| 76 | my "drug test" routinethanks, coming from a random sequence of numbers that means a lot | /r/seduction | 06/08/12 04:28 AM |
| 4 | my "drug test" routinelike I said, its done in a PLAYFULL/JOKING vibe, you should have made her laugh a few times before trying this so that you establish the "Im just fucking around" vibe | /r/seduction | 06/08/12 04:27 AM |
| 33 | my "drug test" routinealways carry your rubber gloves with you! | /r/seduction | 06/08/12 04:25 AM |
| 4 | my "drug test" routinebest quote from the movie "Hostel" | /r/seduction | 06/08/12 04:24 AM |
| 34 | my "drug test" routine;) (it was long overdue) | /r/seduction | 06/08/12 04:00 AM |
| 10 | my "drug test" routinethey shouldn't figure it out if done correctly, sure they know you're hitting on them (in most cases), but it should seem natural and not staged... like most of my best lines/routines, I just randomly and naturally did this once (so first time it wasn't scripted at all), I got a good reaction to it so I do it now from time to time you'll only get called out if its obvious that you "use this on all the girls" | /r/seduction | 06/08/12 03:31 AM |
| 17 | my "drug test" routineThanks! And yes this is one of my creations | /r/seduction | 06/08/12 02:22 AM |
| 56 | my "drug test" routineOf course my horse, I want to see if other guys can also pull it off | /r/seduction | 06/08/12 01:41 AM |
| 1 | Reluctantly went to lame party, ended up getting a #close. GO OUT!good stuff, I just posted a similar FR from Friday (except it was an unpopulated club instead of a party). There's always atleast one good set/girl to get | /r/seduction | 05/08/12 10:28 PM |
| 15 | Being the Life of the Partysounds like dancing monkey syndrome... Entertain YOU not them | /r/seduction | 05/08/12 03:39 AM |
| 1 | Why the fuck is it so hard?I had the exact same problem a few months ago.... you'll get past it | /r/seduction | 04/08/12 11:50 PM |
| 1 | Why the fuck is it so hard?I've been into it for about a year and I've made WAY more progress in the past couple months than in the past 12... the reason why is because I GO OUT ALL THE TIME NOW... if you only go out once a week then you won't be getting nearly enough experience, GO OUT MORE | /r/seduction | 04/08/12 08:23 PM |
| 3 | [FR] Making the best of a quiet night, my smoothest pickup yetwhen it happened for the past two weeks I was just assuming that girls names were samantha... so thats what they would be called... just stupid shit that I do | /r/seduction | 04/08/12 07:56 PM |
| 1 | What can I do to add humor to the very beginning of an interaction?I used it last night it ALWAYS works ;) http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/xnxxz/fr_making_the_best_of_a_quiet_night_my_smoothest/ | /r/seduction | 04/08/12 07:53 PM |
| 4 | [FR] Making the best of a quiet night, my smoothest pickup yethaha thanks... I used it before when I told a girl on an insanely crowded bus to give me her seat, she scooched over so I could share the seat with her, and then I called her "Samantha" randomly to be a dick... turns out that was actually her name, when she asked how I knew I told her the truth "I was just trying to be an asshole" | /r/seduction | 04/08/12 07:49 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Making the best of a quiet night, my smoothest pickup yetthank you kindly | /r/seduction | 04/08/12 07:47 PM |
| 5 | [FR] Making the best of a quiet night, my smoothest pickup yetNo, for the reason I told her "why the fuck would I want a cold cheeseburger that you've had sitting in your bag for three weeks?", but seriously I should have | /r/seduction | 04/08/12 07:43 PM |
| 2 | Hot girls can be nicer, or, more friendly.I have a lot of super attractive female friends... they wouldn't be my friends if they were bitchy or boring. There's a ton of reasons why women might come off as bitchy: they're having a bad day/night, they're tired of guys hitting on them all night so they're "bitch shield" is strong (you can often lower their defenses easily in this case if you open with something indirect and funny), or theres a chance that they actually are stuck up bitches (but MOST of the time its one of the first two rea… | /r/seduction | 04/08/12 07:12 AM |
| 3 | What can I do to add humor to the very beginning of an interaction?I can't teach you to be funny, but my strength at the game is being able to make women laugh VERY consistently... starting within a few seconds almost every time. I'll give you a line that I made up that has gotten a laugh and started a conversation about 40/41 times I've tried it (and I've told my wings to try it and it worked for them as well) go up to a girl with a purse/bag, say "I'm hungry, Do you have any snacks in your bag... like cake or something" (the last part about the cake is the mo… | /r/seduction | 04/08/12 03:04 AM |
| 2 | Guys, I hear this all the time, but I still don't get it. How do you determine that a girl is making an eye contact with you?You'll get a sense for it eventually, theres different levels of it, for example, some girls will look at you for a few seconds then look away, girls will look at you for a while look away and then look at you again repeatedly, they'll look at you and follow you with their eyes when you walk by, etc.... eventually you'll get that "HA she wants to fuck me, Im sexy and I know it" feeling (when it starts to happen you'll know) | /r/seduction | 04/08/12 02:57 AM |
| 2 | [FR] just had the 2 most fucked up rejections I've ever had within 2 minutes of eachotherDancer chick detailed FR: I go to the bottom floor of the club after some warm up approaches upstairs, its hot as hell in the place and theres a big ass fan that 3 girls are standing infront of, I say something stupid like "stop stealing all the air, give me some" and the hot one turns around and says something (I forget what) she seems attracted quickly, I ask her "where's your tight and bright?" (it was a 'tight and bright' theme that night) she says her bra is, she points to her purple bra th… | /r/seduction | 01/08/12 07:16 AM |
| 1 | [FR] just had the 2 most fucked up rejections I've ever had within 2 minutes of eachotherthanks brotha... I swear to god the "FUCKING LEAVE" chick, it was like when you play Skyrim and accidently pick up an item that doesn't belong to you and all of a sudden everyone goes ape shit on yo ass | /r/seduction | 01/08/12 06:15 AM |
| 1 | Female approach anxiety?confidence is the biggest factor I think... I get checked out A LOT but get approached VERY rarely, and when I do about 80% of the time its from a hot girl (8 or above), 15% from gay guys and 5% from average/unattractive girls | /r/seduction | 31/07/12 11:41 PM |
| 1 | Female approach anxiety?AA is more from social conditioning than evo-psych. I've asked tons of women this, and the main reason they don't approach (according to them) is that they are scared of rejection (just like men)... also they feel like people will judge them because they think there is a social stigma to women approaching | /r/seduction | 31/07/12 11:22 PM |
| -1 | Being Fun Vs Being the JokeI used to have that problem (always the funny one), I used to always want attention and make people laugh... now I really don't give a fuck if people think Im funny or not (even though they always think I'm hilarious), my sense of humor has evolved over the years to be more an asshole, think of Stephen Colbert's style of humour. He acts like a nself-centered asshole, but everyone knows he's not actually like that so he's a hilarious and a badass alpha male at the same time... be an asshole and m… | /r/seduction | 31/07/12 11:18 PM |
| 1 | [FR] just had the 2 most fucked up rejections I've ever had within 2 minutes of eachothertrue, I don't give a fuck about the rejections (I've had hundred), I mostly posted to get peoples opinions on what happened. I didn't go into too much detail because they were standard (attempted) pickups and both girls were showing many IOIs, compliance, qualifying, all that shit, I've picked up tons of girls who showed far less interest... its just the endings that were strange so I just focused on that. [the first girl was pretty sober, second was drunk] I definitely agree about the creepy "h… | /r/seduction | 31/07/12 11:12 PM |
| 4 | [FR] just had the 2 most fucked up rejections I've ever had within 2 minutes of eachotherdamn, it all fits | /r/seduction | 31/07/12 10:58 PM |
| 1 | [FR] just had the 2 most fucked up rejections I've ever had within 2 minutes of eachotherI've written many a FR that detailed more, but these girls were going exactly along the path of tons of successful pickups I've had... But it was the abrupt rejections that surprised me, so I just wrote about the endings | /r/seduction | 31/07/12 09:24 PM |
| 2 | [FR] just had the 2 most fucked up rejections I've ever had within 2 minutes of eachotherNot if it's done right | /r/seduction | 31/07/12 04:33 PM |
| 2 | Out of curisosity, How did you learn to make women laugh?I'm already the witty sharp type, just wondering about others | /r/seduction | 31/07/12 02:50 AM |
| 3 | DAE utilize Plenty of Fish to meet women?Its WAAAAAAY easier to pickup a 8 or 9 in real life than it is to get a 6 or 7 on POF for various reasons. Its kind of neat to pickup chicks while I'm taking a shit... but its not even remotely close to real life pickup | /r/seduction | 31/07/12 12:15 AM |
| 2 | Has anyone here on Seddit have a "Playbook" of their own? If so, can we see it?I have lots of my own "plays" (i.e. routines/lines) that I'll occassionally copy and paste into my interactions.... but having a full blown [do this, then do this, then do that] simply won't work since theres a ton of factors and variables that you won't be prepared for | /r/seduction | 30/07/12 04:58 AM |
| 1 | I am Cajun: woodsman, alcoholic, beard connoisseur, and lead instructor at Love Systems. AMAwhats the best way to get over a plateau? | /r/seduction | 30/07/12 03:07 AM |
| 20 | Sexual framing. How do you make the conversation sexual?one of the things I say during qualification is say "do you have any cool hobbies, or fucked up fetishes I should know about" | /r/seduction | 23/07/12 05:40 AM |
| 7 | How to feel like I'm not bothering girls?My philosophy when I approach is that I'm doing the girl a favour and am making her night/day better by talking to her. My first aim is to be social, funny, fun, and BE THE PARTY! Basically you should have the mindset of GIVING VALUE (making her have fun) rather than (just wanting in her pants) | /r/seduction | 23/07/12 03:13 AM |
| 0 | [FR] I barely did anything and now I have a fuck buddy. F-Closemost girls who are at least a 6 will get hit on constantly when they go out... that doesn't make them all 10's. Preselection doesn't make a female any more attractive | /r/seduction | 22/07/12 10:14 PM |
| 4 | [FR] I barely did anything and now I have a fuck buddy. F-Closeno... its not | /r/seduction | 22/07/12 06:24 PM |
| 1 | How to be less critical/negativeGive us some examples. How do you say things to them? I always say extremely cold/cruel things... BUT they always know I'm joking around, if they aren't laughing your doing it wrong | /r/seduction | 15/07/12 11:11 PM |
| 1 | Not detailed enough for an FR, but I decided to take a chance and be a total cocky asshole douchebagdepends HOW he said it... I say more "offensive" things to girls all the time but its said in a just fucking around vibe | /r/seduction | 14/07/12 06:19 PM |
| 5 | What It Takes to Be an Attractive Manits both, women are attracted to fit bodies, which makes the guy more confident... which women are also attracted too | /r/seduction | 13/07/12 10:45 PM |
| 1 | My "S.C.U.B." attraction model (work in progress, give feedback)what your describing would fit under the "uniqueness" part. If you score high in that it will be attractive... but "coolness" is specifically meant to describe the fun, social vibe which every expert agrees is more attractive, they say to have an energy level thats at least slightly higher than the girls. intrigue is one thing but you could enhance your attractiveness by acting like you are the party | /r/seduction | 13/07/12 10:26 PM |
| 1 | My "S.C.U.B." attraction model (work in progress, give feedback)says the dude who tells on people to get them kicked out of clubs, work on your inner game son | /r/seduction | 13/07/12 10:23 PM |
| 0 | My "S.C.U.B." attraction model (work in progress, give feedback)considering all of your posts get downvoted to oblivion (like this one: http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/vr6p1/frword_of_warning_dont_try_to_out_game_me/) I'm sure you must be right... btw its based on the Magic Bullets attraction model, not a dream son... go tell the bouncer on me bitch | /r/seduction | 13/07/12 02:47 AM |
| 1 | My "S.C.U.B." attraction model (work in progress, give feedback)I used the term (along with the others) as an overly simplified "cartoony" definition... think of it like King Leonidas from 300, guy was alpha as fuck, great respectable leader, and a total badass mother fucker | /r/seduction | 12/07/12 10:30 PM |
| 0 | My "S.C.U.B." attraction model (work in progress, give feedback)The thing about pickup is that its fun and social... two things that your style lacks. Your style of being introverted may be attractive to some girls... but the VAST majority prefer a fun outgoing guy | /r/seduction | 12/07/12 10:29 PM |
| 0 | My "S.C.U.B." attraction model (work in progress, give feedback)did you even read the opening of what I wrote? | /r/seduction | 12/07/12 10:24 PM |
| 1 | My "S.C.U.B." attraction model (work in progress, give feedback)Good point, but I think I'll group it into "uniqueness" which is essentially about being different and interesting | /r/seduction | 12/07/12 05:22 PM |
| 0 | My "S.C.U.B." attraction model (work in progress, give feedback)Unless you are James Bond you're doing it VERY wrong | /r/seduction | 12/07/12 05:13 PM |
| 2 | My "S.C.U.B." attraction model (work in progress, give feedback)Those are the 4 main archetypes, and if a man possess all 4 that would be the theoretical "perfect"... Like I said those are just part of the attraction phase. Having one isn't usually enough... Usually the guys who naturally attract women score very high in atleast one of those categories. Also the" health, wealth, relationships" model is the overall ideal of pickup whereas the model I proposed is exclusively focusing on attraction... Of course attracting a woman isn't enough (you still need to… | /r/seduction | 12/07/12 05:11 PM |
| 1 | I give you permission to act like a douchebag.JESUS FUCK... where??? | /r/seduction | 12/07/12 04:56 AM |
| 1 | My "S.C.U.B." attraction model (work in progress, give feedback)had to make the judgement call between sounding good and being 1-to-1 | /r/seduction | 12/07/12 04:54 AM |
| 3 | My "S.C.U.B." attraction model (work in progress, give feedback)FINE | /r/seduction | 12/07/12 04:19 AM |
| 1 | Deciphering if the "I have a boyfriend" shit test is really a shit test."That makes two of us" | /r/seduction | 09/07/12 06:17 AM |
| 1 | How to not come off as creepywhat kind of openers are you using and what kind of "this guy's creepy" responses have you been getting? | /r/seduction | 09/07/12 06:04 AM |
| 1 | Seddit, how do you challenge yourself to improve your game.I've been getting very consistently good very quickly in the past couple of weeks compared to the past several months for two reasons: Go out A LOT (as many times as you possibly can, I do about 4-5 nights a week... and yes I have a day job) FOCUS ON ONE THING AT A TIME (i.e., master opening first... then perfect transitioning, then once you transition work on things like increasing your kino and holding eye contact, etc...) Once you feel consistent about one stage PUSH yourself to work on the n… | /r/seduction | 07/07/12 08:03 PM |
| 2 | How to deal with cock-blocking ugly/jealous friend? (mini fr)haha I'm just joking around (it happened too fast to know wtf was happening) | /r/seduction | 04/07/12 04:27 AM |
| 1 | KINO is HARD.simple but effective one is to do high-fives but always slightly squeeze the hand and try to hold it until she pulls away | /r/seduction | 04/07/12 12:16 AM |
| 3 | How to deal with cock-blocking ugly/jealous friend? (mini fr)true, problem was that I opened the set by photobombing their picture by standing right beside her, it was a split second see camera... time to fuck around things and after the flash went off a second later she was smiling and my arm was around her and she starts talking me up #shellshock shit happened too fast | /r/seduction | 03/07/12 10:51 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with cock-blocking ugly/jealous friend? (mini fr)I forget exactly how I responded... I basically acted like she was slowly winning me over | /r/seduction | 03/07/12 10:49 PM |
| 2 | Don't forget, attraction isn't enoughI used to get the number within a few minutes (eg. On buses) but if they don't feel like they know enough about you then they are far more likely to flake | /r/seduction | 03/07/12 06:22 AM |
| 1 | Don't forget, attraction isn't enoughThey don't have to be "interview questions" , but I've had a bunch of girls who were definitely attracted but when I went for the number they said no because they "didn't know me well enough"... When I started asking more personal questions about themselves and their lives my number of closes has gone waaay up (they need to feel like they know enough about you, and that you know enough about them) | /r/seduction | 03/07/12 06:21 AM |
| 0 | Remember, never take girls' advice on picking up girlsyep, the one's who say they want "nice guys" always go for the ass holes who break their hearts | /r/seduction | 02/07/12 06:31 PM |
| 2 | Don't forget: She is competing for you!post on main subreddit not this thread | /r/seduction | 29/06/12 01:40 PM |
| 0 | Don't forget: She is competing for you!hit the rode chode, this ain't the subreddit for you | /r/seduction | 29/06/12 01:39 PM |
| 6 | [FR] Finally F-closed the HB9 I was chasing for 4 months. Startling revelationSo you were just a rebound fuck of a depressed chick who only fucked you when the other guy was done with her because you were her shoulder to cry on, and she had originally left you for him... and you think that you being a chody bitch is worth posting a FR about??? We haven't taught you anything have we... especially not to have standards or respect for yourself | /r/seduction | 29/06/12 06:40 AM |
| 3 | Don't forget: She is competing for you!Not more competitive, they just allocate more "competitiveness" to appearance than the average guy... guys more often compete by trying to "out alpha" eachother | /r/seduction | 29/06/12 05:46 AM |
| 1 | Not giving a fuckanother good one (less funny, more real) this guy has the perfect attitude on life http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ooZwmeUfuXg | /r/seduction | 29/06/12 03:08 AM |
| 25 | Don't forget: She is competing for you!Virtually EVERY human being cares (even if they say they don't) about being accepted by others and being sexually desired... no matter how much people say they don't give a fuck what others think, its nearly impossible to override such a deeply rooted instinct (we're social animals after all) | /r/seduction | 29/06/12 02:48 AM |
| 15 | Don't forget: She is competing for you!even if they don't admit to it, every woman wants to feel prettier than the other women are | /r/seduction | 29/06/12 01:01 AM |
| 1 | I've improved more in going out 5 days in a row than I have in 3 months of going out sometimesnight | /r/seduction | 29/06/12 12:40 AM |
| 5 | I've improved more in going out 5 days in a row than I have in 3 months of going out sometimesSame here (9 - 5) trick is to go early and not stay out too late + caffeine | /r/seduction | 27/06/12 02:57 PM |
| 1 | Are there any games to help with AA?I went to a "white t-shirt party" last night where everyone was signing peoples shirts with markers. Its VERY easy to approach in those situations where you have a reason | /r/seduction | 27/06/12 04:37 AM |
| 6 | If you are alone how do you close a 2-set?THIS... I opened two sets this weekend with 2-3 other people in them by myself that both of my targets were SUPER attracted to me... but I only got a number from the set that I included everyone. Its hard to always remember but its something you need to work on and remember | /r/seduction | 27/06/12 03:40 AM |
| 2 | MindsetPRACTICE... it'll be deeply ingrained into your mentality eventually | /r/seduction | 26/06/12 02:58 AM |
| 1 | What are you favorite websites for articles, tips, advice, etc?The main schools I use are love systems and RSD... and then I like seddit for random pieces of advice and I like simple pickup for the lulz | /r/seduction | 24/06/12 12:18 AM |
| 3 | [FR] I really wish you could all feel how I do right nowthere's a ton of variations you can use... but the one I was using (perfect for club/festival settings): say "Are you having a super kick-ass time!?!?" (said with high energy life of the party vibe)... she lights up and giggles and replies... you say "scale of 1-10 how many asses has it kicked"... she answers (now she's EXTREMELY WARM even if she seemed distant or cold at first).... then you just go off that answer and the rest writes itself. So you have the opener transition and the start of at… | /r/seduction | 23/06/12 04:31 PM |
| 11 | If you're trying to pull a girl from a bar/club back to your place, how do you deal with her protective friends?BEFRIEND THE FRIENDS... I was just in a similar situation a couple of hours ago (couldn't pull back for logistical reasons)... but the girl was with 2 females and 1 male (her brother), I was just friendly to all of them and made them all laugh a ton of times... then when I went for the number her brother encouraged her to give it to me (she would have anyway, but it was awesome to have that kind of support from what could have been a huge cockblock) | /r/seduction | 23/06/12 07:22 AM |
| 3 | Short, fat and 0 confidence should I even be here?YEP! I'm about average height (5'10) and used to always feel ugly until a few years ago and now I'm jacked something fierce (and wear cool clothes and got a better haircut) and get checked out A LOT... plus it doesn't matter because being funny is by far my most powerful attraction mechanism (I'm a "perfect 10" of being funny) and if you are confident and can out-funny other dudes you can DESTROY them for a girls attraction (even against male-model looking tall guys... seriously) | /r/seduction | 23/06/12 02:14 AM |
| 3 | Why working out and getting good at pick up are EXTREMELY similar and you should be doing bothplus "difference" is very subjective | /r/seduction | 20/06/12 05:27 AM |
| 6 | Why working out and getting good at pick up are EXTREMELY similar and you should be doing bothlook it up, thats just the cliche time frame they tell to noobies | /r/seduction | 20/06/12 05:26 AM |
| 2 | DAE find yourself knowing what you should do yet still not being able to do it?for some reason when a girl is checking me out I am less likely to approach her... e.g. there was a huge festival this weekend and I was getting checked out (eye-fucked) A LOT, didn't approach any of them... but I approached about 25 different sets (one set had about 10 girls in it that all were SMOKIN HOT) so AA isn't a problem for me... I just feel more awkward if the chick is giving me "approach me eyes"... no idea why, but I'm working on it | /r/seduction | 18/06/12 10:49 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Went to a bar/club with friends, girls were interested in my friends but not me. A little upset, but not going to give up. Looking for adviceRULE #1.... HAVE FUN! talk up as many people as you can, worry less about picking up and more about having a good time also, I used to be less attractive than most of my friends but now I work out, have a better hair cut and wear cool clothes... I get checked out A LOT and approached a decent amount | /r/seduction | 18/06/12 02:40 AM |
| 5 | Approached more than 50 women, but still no results...Analogy: its like lifting weights. You first start off at low weights and lift that as many times as you can. You struggle with the weight at first but after enough reps/sets it becomes very easy. Now once you can easily lift the weight, you add more weight and struggle with it at first... but then it get easy and you add more weight again... rinse, repeat | /r/seduction | 17/06/12 09:40 PM |
| 8 | Approached more than 50 women, but still no results...The best way is to improve in stages. Get used to opening Be able to transition and actually have a conversation While in that conversation learn to BUILD ATTRACTION (be confident, funny, interesting, kino, etc) Qualify her (make her prove that she's worth picking up) Build comfort (get to know each other, or else there's a higher chance of flaing) seduce This is based on Love Systems model. once your good at one stage, work on the next stage. you can get her number or go for a kiss at the attra… | /r/seduction | 17/06/12 09:35 PM |
| 2 | Has anyone else ever been called out w/ seddit terms?once you get better at it you won't have to worry about getting called out because it will appear to be so natural | /r/seduction | 17/06/12 05:24 PM |
| 4 | Mystery coming back. "Ultimate pickup artist convention". Others speaking there including Tyler and Jeffy from RSDprobably he's talking about more extreme things... like banging them within the same hour (that'd be my guess) | /r/seduction | 14/06/12 11:30 PM |
| 7 | Eye contact/How can you tell if someone is into you.How do you improve keeping eye contact - very simple, just start holding eye contact with strangers as you walk down the street, might be awkward for a while but you'll get used to it. Assume attraction like puaCurveBall said... but if you're looking for a more IOI-ish answer, usually if she holds eye contact or is looking at you for at least 5 seconds she's probably attracted, and if she smiles at you while making eye contact... BOOM | /r/seduction | 11/06/12 12:14 AM |
| 1 | Can an introvert be "sociable"?of course you can, its the same thing as "I can't approach"... you just have to force yourself to and then you see its no big deal and it gets easier | /r/seduction | 10/06/12 07:46 PM |
| 13 | Can an introvert be "sociable"?I used to be an incredibly shy and introverted person... now I'm ALWAYS the extroverted, funny, life of the party type guy... the secret is to just start talking to people, talk out loud and say whatever you want whenever you want. You'll learn that people don't judge you and it isn't awkward after a while to be so outgoing | /r/seduction | 10/06/12 01:41 AM |
| 1 | How do you become a value giver?My favourite night game opener is "on a scale from 1-10 how much of a kick-ass time are you having!?"... girls ALWAYS giggle and then smile and respond VERY positively to it... why? because it gives value because it conveys that I'm not trying to take anything from them, I'm making sure that she is having a fun time | /r/seduction | 15/05/12 12:58 AM |
| 1 | Neil Strauss' iPhone App: A Better ManI'm an android dev... anything like this I should make an app off? | /r/seduction | 04/05/12 04:39 AM |
| 6 | IOIs from previously friend zoned women?used to be, but I'm asking because ever since I started learning this stuff some of my female friends act differently towards me and I don't want to lead them on | /r/seduction | 02/05/12 04:21 PM |
| 1 | [The Definitive Guide] Taking Requests!making definitive guides [the definitive guide] | /r/seduction | 17/04/12 03:19 AM |
| 3 | How do you initiate sex with a guy?if you want a less direct approach: make up some story about two of your friends having sex with each other and how it didn't make things awkward between them. Then ask "hypothetically" if you two fucked if things wouldn't get awkward | /r/seduction | 17/04/12 03:05 AM |
| 1 | Awesome music video of a guy not giving a fuck and enjoying life from one moment to the nextmight be considered too off topic, but it shows the attitude of thinking fun, not outcome | /r/seduction | 16/04/12 08:47 PM |
| 20 | Do women make good wingmen for guys? Any stories appreciated...YES. They act as HUGE social proof/ preselection | /r/seduction | 13/04/12 02:13 PM |
| 5 | Facebook/IM/Online “Game”: avoid it!True... I've found out the hard way not to use facebook/too much txting this past month. Its ruined tons of my "projects" , DONT DO IT | /r/seduction | 13/04/12 05:01 AM |
| 1 | Winnipeg?like a lair | /r/seduction | 28/03/12 05:52 PM |
| 1 | Winnipeg?that bad? | /r/seduction | 28/03/12 05:51 PM |
| 0 | Sasha - Epic Speech (Direct Approach)direct isn't always the best for every situation... especially if its in a nightclub where the super hot girls are getting called "hot/cute/sexy" dozens of times an hour (not impossible to pull off, but way more difficult for most guys to do successfully) | /r/seduction | 26/03/12 06:54 AM |
| 4 | [FR] - Don't blow yourself out and break those limiting beliefs. F-Close HB-9 with fabulous tits.same, everyone would describe me as a "perfect ten" in terms of how funny I am, I'm decent looking and I can open easily... but I don't go for the kill nearly enough | /r/seduction | 22/03/12 10:50 PM |
| 330 | [FR] Absolutely epic night. Four-way with porn star, crime scene investigator & ex-cheerleader MILFI both hate and worship you... | /r/seduction | 18/03/12 06:54 PM |
| 7 | "When's the last time you had sex?" response?"Last evening, in the moonlight... his name was Jimmy, when he pulled up in that 'candy van' I couldn't resist" | /r/seduction | 23/02/12 02:13 AM |
| 2 | Indirect game dead?I usually go indirect (because that works for me), especially during night game where the girl is getting called hot 20x | /r/seduction | 16/02/12 11:53 PM |
| 1 | I know exactly what my sticking points are. How do I fix them?You really just need to keep bushing your boundaries and going out of your comfort zone... eventually it will all become automatic and the intimidation will be gone | /r/seduction | 12/02/12 10:49 PM |
| 1 | Blushing... good or bad?pretty much exactly like that lol (but seriously... pretty much) | /r/seduction | 08/02/12 09:22 AM |
| 1 | It seems to me that pick-up gets easier after turning 21, at least when going out solo.drinking age is 19 here in Canada.... but I'm 21 now and just started going out solo about a month ago (was in a relationship when I was 19 for a year, and didn;t go out too much after that... until recently). But being able to go to clubs/bars is a very good way to get desensitized to hot girls, so your AA will quickly fade after regular practice | /r/seduction | 07/02/12 04:39 AM |
| 1 | Is the Internet a good place to practice lines? And methods?"lines and methods" are mostly effective solely due to how they are delivered (confidence, body language, tone/speed, etc...). Its WAY easier to talk to a hot girl online than it is to talk to her in a noisy night time environment where you need to have your confidence and delivery top notch. In the same way that its easy to play call of duty VS actually fighting in a war | /r/seduction | 06/02/12 04:56 AM |
| 2 | Once too nice, now too cocky: one man's quest to find a balanceyou have the "cocky" but not the funny.... the key to being "in the middle" of AFC/Cocky is to be an asshole AND make them laugh at the same time. What that means is they should be able to tell that your "asshole comments" are just a persona and that you're deep down not an ass-hole (kind of like Stephen Colbert). Just be sarcastic like you would be with any of your friends. | /r/seduction | 05/02/12 07:23 PM |
| 1 | Club game adviceI strongly prefer non-club environments because making chicks laugh is my best ability (and clubs be fucking LOUD)... But I am still working on improving my nightgame... at clubs you can escalate kino very fast (usually) and rely heavily on body language to communicate since its hard to talk | /r/seduction | 05/02/12 01:42 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Talked to 4 girls (it's a start, right?)Good work! Don't forget that approaching is 80% of the battle and that just by simply approaching you have a FAR better chance than the other guys who are too scared | /r/seduction | 05/02/12 01:30 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Talked to 4 girls (it's a start, right?)I have had successful closes using FB instead of a #-close (I eventually get the number anyways)... I use FB if and (usually) ONLY if I'm am definitely going to see the girl again anyways (e.g. same class, or social circle) | /r/seduction | 05/02/12 01:29 AM |
| 3 | Can someone give me some tips on going out alone?I know how you feel, I only have 1 good wingman (but he usually goes out of town on weekends) and my other friends either have gf's or just hold me back... Anyway I started going out 3 nights a week by myself a few weeks ago, I'm not great at game yet, but I've made HUGE improvements compared to last semester when I went out only when others wanted to. It feels EXACTLY like you envision it, like a playground where you can practice pick up on tons of girls whenever you want. after 3 weeks I'm vir… | /r/seduction | 03/02/12 02:33 AM |
| 1 | We are Simple Pickup AMAjust start talking to random girls, even if you practice just having friendly conversations at first until you're ready to pickup strangers... there's no other way around it, just do it | /r/seduction | 02/02/12 07:44 AM |
| 1 | We are Simple Pickup AMAstart taking fitness classes. My university has a thing where you buy a membership for like $30 a semester and you can go to various classes throughout the week. At my school (and its probably similar in others) theres like at least 90% females in them and most of them are pretty hot. Just be social and funny, and you're set... trust me(I just started going to them last week, and its already my favourite place to meet new girls) | /r/seduction | 02/02/12 07:40 AM |
| 1 | How often do you guys take #'s?If she seems interested and I won't see her again if I don't #close then I'll get it... If Its a social gathering where I met her (and I'll definitely see her again soon) e.g. social circle, or class then I'll add her on facebook first | /r/seduction | 02/02/12 07:16 AM |
| 0 | Just got kicked out of the dollar store, WOW! Thanks, seddit!LMFAO! If she thinks thats bad... I had to spend my 19th birthday working at a taco bell, and I got hit on by some FUCKING CREEPY old drunk woman | /r/seduction | 02/02/12 06:16 AM |
| 2 | We are Simple Pickup AMAat clubs I like wearing glow-sticks (Im tacky) anyway, I like just walking up to girls super high energy and going "fucking glow sticks!!!" holding my wrists up... They always asks if they can have one, which leads you into easy "negging" and kino and shit | /r/seduction | 02/02/12 04:06 AM |
| 6 | We are Simple Pickup AMAWhens the best time to go for the number? I can open almost any girl and have her laughing and enjoying the convo within a few seconds, but I usually wait too long to get her number, or I go too soon (and get flaked) | /r/seduction | 02/02/12 03:47 AM |
| 1 | Blushing... good or bad?I added her last night, she hasn't accepted it yet, but based on her profile she doesn't log on very often. But I'll def do a FR later, and thanks for the feedback | /r/seduction | 02/02/12 03:32 AM |
| 4 | We are Simple Pickup AMAtry my opener: "I lost my friend... he looks like me only more Asian... have you seen him?" (always gets a good response) | /r/seduction | 02/02/12 03:28 AM |
| 36 | We are Simple Pickup AMAWhats the worst blow out/rejection out you've ever received? p.s. you guys kick all kinds of ass | /r/seduction | 02/02/12 03:23 AM |
| 1 | Hey Seddit, I made this flowchart for a quick way to always have something to say. What do you think?I sometimes can't always think of new openers (I usually can), but every night when I'm out I usually think up 2 or 3 new ones (good ones)... try creating your own so you 1. don't get bored/bore others... and 2. helps improve your improv skills which will greatly help you in further conversation | /r/seduction | 31/01/12 12:41 AM |
| 2 | Are there any Sedditors in Reykjavík, Iceland?I've heard that many times... I think Quintin Tarantino was talking about how the entire population looks like super models | /r/seduction | 30/01/12 07:10 AM |
| 3 | My 3 laws of pickup, sharing welcomeInner Game (your confidence and mind set) Outer game (how you actually interact with women) Attractiveness (not just physical, but also body language, fashion, tone of voice, posture, etc... basically things that you can work on when not in field) that's just my oversimplification of it | /r/seduction | 30/01/12 07:07 AM |
| 3 | Has anyone tried the "Apocalypse opener"?but does it work? | /r/seduction | 28/01/12 02:12 AM |
| 1 | What golden responses do you know?one of the first times I used this was when I had my nails painted my school colours for homecoming, I went around opening by saying "I got my nails did"... most chicks thought it was funny and responded warmly... however this one girl gave me the dirtiest look I ever got... without flinching, I look her straight in the eyes and say "you jealous?"... and BOOM... the dirty look instantly turned into a huge smile | /r/seduction | 27/01/12 11:05 PM |
| 2 | Really Neil? A board game? :facepalm:They should have made a Sim-like video game of this instead | /r/seduction | 27/01/12 09:04 PM |
| 1 | I just can't get past this plateau, please give me adviceI've tried that, but I like this particular club because it has about 6-8 times as many people as the bars do (plus the girls tend to be more attractive) | /r/seduction | 27/01/12 09:32 AM |
| 2 | This is what's possible if you continue the journey...tyler, neil strauss, cajun, savoy, (most of the TOP instructors aren't good looking/tall) | /r/seduction | 26/01/12 10:08 PM |
| 1 | This is what's possible if you continue the journey...Last weekend when I was coming home from the clubs, I heard a girl walking behind me talking to her friends about how obnoxious this guy was being because he kept telling her "I'm good looking, why won't you have sex with me?"... This is a VERY common pattern, guys who are good looking get "lucky" more than average guys, but being great at pickup isn't about "luck" | /r/seduction | 26/01/12 09:41 PM |
| 2 | This is what's possible if you continue the journey...if she'd make out with him like that, then she was bound to cheat on her fiancee anyway | /r/seduction | 26/01/12 07:16 AM |
| 1 | This is what's possible if you continue the journey..."it's about getting out and talking to people" - that is a huge part of the journey... I chose the title to inspire people so that they can see the kinds of successes they can have | /r/seduction | 26/01/12 07:06 AM |
| 3 | This is what's possible if you continue the journey...but this is on the street outside of nightclubs where everyone is drunk and in a party mood | /r/seduction | 26/01/12 05:20 AM |
| 7 | This is what's possible if you continue the journey...Wrong. Tyler has a ton of these videos showing him doing basically the same thing (and he sure as shit isn't attractive). Good looking people obviously have an advantage but without game its not very consistent. I have a friend who looks like a male model and he solely relies on his looks and usually ends up creeping out the chicks he hits on. | /r/seduction | 26/01/12 05:19 AM |
| 2 | This is what's possible if you continue the journey...they do have videos with rejections | /r/seduction | 25/01/12 11:20 PM |
| 3 | This is what's possible if you continue the journey...I'm not sure if this was all in one night, he has the double-makeout clip in another video from a few months ago, kick-ass montage anyways | /r/seduction | 25/01/12 08:40 PM |
| 1 | What golden responses do you know?My universal line is "you jealous?" (works best for stupid shit that nobody would be jealous of) | /r/seduction | 25/01/12 07:29 PM |
| 2 | After going out every week 3 days for the past 4-5 weeks, something funny is happening to me at school.Picking up/meeting girls on the bus is my personal favourite (I like how random it is) | /r/seduction | 25/01/12 06:46 AM |
| 1 | On clubs.I used to HATE going to clubs to pickup (even with friends), after I've gone out only 3 times by myself (almost completely sober), I almost literally don't have AA anymore (and I'm talking about girls who look like models). Also, I'm only 5'10 (so about your height). Once you start going to clubs you'll love it since theres sooo many hot girls in one location | /r/seduction | 23/01/12 07:15 AM |
| 4 | Ways to compete against more attractive men?good looking guys can often be easier to out-compete since they have usually relied solely on their looks so they have no game. I out-competed a guy who looked like a male model a couple months ago because it was obvious that he had no idea what the hell he was doing (e.g. he just agreed with the girl about everything) meanwhile I was challenging her and making her laugh and stuff... long story short, I WON | /r/seduction | 23/01/12 04:36 AM |
| 3 | I need help learning to touch people.I started (and still make a habit) by touching the girls hand/should/forearm when I'm emphasizing a point. Once you're comfortable with that, move on to also touch her back (e.g. if its loud and she can't hear me, I'll put my hand on her back and pull her towards me so she can hear) | /r/seduction | 22/01/12 10:05 AM |
| 5 | I need help learning to touch people.Its honestly the exact same feeling/process as learning to approach, it feels very uncomfortable at first, but after you do it enough you realize that the girls don't freak out (like you pictured in your mind), same goes for eye contact, just keep doing it... you'll have to force yourself at first but it becomes super instinctive and natural VERY quickly once you realize its no big deal | /r/seduction | 22/01/12 08:44 AM |
| 1 | To everyone going out tonight alone (for the first time)...I go to clubs (way more girls than bars, at least in my experience), I went out solo tonight for the 3rd time and had a ton of fun.. I didn't get any closes but I made a bunch of random friends waiting in line for an hour, and then I opened a ton of sets inside. I honestly think I'm 99.9% over my AA after how often I've gone out (not even that often), now I can not give a fuck and open sets that look like legit super models and have them laughing and into a conversation in under 10 seconds. Just… | /r/seduction | 22/01/12 08:27 AM |
| 1 | To everyone going out tonight alone (for the first time)...getting used to going out alone has been one of my biggest breakthroughs, because now I can improve my game whenever I want (and not have to worry about my friends flaking) | /r/seduction | 21/01/12 04:13 AM |
| 2 | Seductive Listeningthats only if you've built up enough attraction and you think its time to go for the kiss... make strong eye contact (no looking at the lips) until she's attracted | /r/seduction | 21/01/12 04:11 AM |
| 1 | How do you handle two girls that are both into you, but are roommates?you GET THE FUCK OFF REDDIT and go make us jealous... that's how | /r/seduction | 21/01/12 04:01 AM |
| 1 | Opening a girl who is looking at her phone...I just randomly thought of saying that last night and its got pretty positive responses (I cut away from it shortly after opening) | /r/seduction | 20/01/12 09:38 PM |
| 4 | Ultimate Peacocking Item...I love using glowsticks because they look cool and... If I can't think of an opener, I just go upto the girl, draw attention to the glowstick and say "are you jealous!?"... MOST of the time they giggle and ask if they can have one, to which I reply "5 dollars" (or something outrageous like that) this forces out an easy shit test early (plus it can lead to easy kino, negging, and all that stuff) | /r/seduction | 19/01/12 09:11 PM |
| 19 | What's the balance between being an asshole and an AFC nice guy?have INTENT, but be OUTCOME INDEPENDENT (aka. own the fact that you wanna fuck the girl, but if she doesn't like you, then you don't care because you can easily get another girl instead)... "nice guys" don't show intent, "assholes (creeps)" have intent BUT they also are outcome DEPENDENT | /r/seduction | 19/01/12 02:46 AM |
| 5 | I am Warlizard, AMAA. I had sex with somewhere between 75-90 women by having fun and enjoying my life. Frogma asked me if I'd drop by and talk to you guys.truer words were never spoken | /r/seduction | 18/01/12 05:15 AM |
| 8 | I am Warlizard, AMAA. I had sex with somewhere between 75-90 women by having fun and enjoying my life. Frogma asked me if I'd drop by and talk to you guys.what's the number 1 mantra that you live your life by? | /r/seduction | 18/01/12 05:06 AM |
| 2 | Lesbian PUA who picks up straight women [video]she has had Savoy (from 'Love Systems', guy who wrote Magic Bullets) and she was accepting of it | /r/seduction | 17/01/12 06:52 PM |
| 7 | Lesbian PUA who picks up straight women [video]lets do this | /r/seduction | 17/01/12 09:17 AM |
| 1 | infield pickup in 3D!!!neither do I, you're supposed to cross your eyes until the two images blend together (it takes a bit of practice to get it to focus properly) | /r/seduction | 16/01/12 11:55 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with a girl giving constant shit tests?I thought it was good (at least for a while), my wing told me I needed to touch her more, but I was touching her more than most girls who I've actually closed. I dont know exactly what went wrong, I could just start to feel after a while that it wasn't working out | /r/seduction | 14/01/12 01:29 AM |
| 1 | Going out alone...day game solo is my specialty. Its the waiting in lines and stuff by myself at night that feels awkward | /r/seduction | 12/01/12 07:00 AM |
| 0 | Won't have a phone for a couple of weeks...I'll look into that, thanks. Problem was I didn't have enough for my bill, and I won't have enough for a couple of weeks to reactivate it | /r/seduction | 08/01/12 04:22 AM |
| 0 | Won't have a phone for a couple of weeks...Couldn't afford the bill, and I won't be getting paid for a couple of weeks. It's the first week of the new semester this week, which is a big party week, so I can't go a wait for my money to come in before I meet new girls | /r/seduction | 08/01/12 04:20 AM |
| 7 | Funny answers to "what's you new year's resolution?""going on 40% more picnics" | /r/seduction | 06/01/12 07:52 AM |
| 2 | Problem: I find working out boring as fuck.If you want an easier way to kick ass and get ass... then JUST DO IT | /r/seduction | 02/01/12 09:06 AM |
| 0 | Whats one small thing a day I can do to improve my game?the results won't be necessarily "better"... but equivalent weights are WAY easier on cables. E.g. I can curl 150 lbs per arm on cables, no way in hell I could with free weights | /r/seduction | 20/12/11 09:41 AM |
| 5 | Whats one small thing a day I can do to improve my game?go to the gym develop inner game (e.g. do affirmations) practice holding eye contact with people talk to strangers (ideally attractive women) | /r/seduction | 20/12/11 09:28 AM |
| -5 | Whats one small thing a day I can do to improve my game?I almost always use ellipticals and cable weights and I am FIT AS SHIT, it doesn't really matter which you use | /r/seduction | 20/12/11 09:24 AM |
| 2 | Short Indian Kid Picking up Girls at a Club [Infield Video]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oek4X_69MQk | /r/seduction | 16/12/11 03:16 AM |
| 1 | Is this not the worst pickup you've ever seen?Peaches did an interview on pickuppodcast.com a while ago and said that there were times when they had to cut out footage because the guys would "pickup" girls who were almost literally falling over from being so drunk. | /r/seduction | 14/12/11 04:43 AM |
| 1 | Is this not the worst pickup you've ever seen?I hate it when they still win a challenge by going after easy targets (e.g. super drunk, or unattractive) | /r/seduction | 14/12/11 03:59 AM |
| 6 | The looks matter / don’t matter controversy. My 2 cents (from a 6’3 black guy’s perspective)I can see being upset about being short because you can't control it... but being skinny is TOTALLY FIXABLE. I'm only 5'10 and used to weigh 135 (very skinny), and now I weigh around 175-180 because I took control of it and work out A LOT, and guess what ... it's WAY easier to get girls now. So stop complaining and get your asses to the gym boys | /r/seduction | 12/12/11 11:10 PM |
| 2 | On the importance of good looksI have lots of examples of times when looks didn't matter, such as outgaming way better looking guys who I was directly competing against... or feeling super confident after nailing a presentation in school, and walking around campus afterwards getting checked out by tons of girls even though I was looking like shit from not shaving or showering for a few days | /r/seduction | 12/12/11 07:06 PM |
| 3 | Short Indian Kid Picking up Girls at a Club [Infield Video]if it makes you feel better, Cajun is only 5'6 (he is in another episode, he's a MPUA, and the best I've ever seen on this show) | /r/seduction | 12/12/11 03:57 AM |
| 1 | Whats the longest someone has been in a relationship without having any sex?3.5 months | /r/seduction | 12/12/11 03:00 AM |
| 1 | Tip: how to improve yourself while you sleep (seriously)I don't know if you can get that exact one as an mp3, but just google search it, or search in a torrent search engine, or you could convert one off of a youtube video. I haven't tried other ones so I can't recommend a "best" free one | /r/seduction | 12/12/11 01:14 AM |
| 0 | Tall Muscular White Guy Game vs. Short Ethnic Guy Gameyeah, probably was closer to 6'5. But I'm always one of the shortest guys in the club, but I work out a lot so I'm also one of the most fit | /r/seduction | 11/12/11 06:56 AM |
| 0 | Tall Muscular White Guy Game vs. Short Ethnic Guy GameI'm 5'10 and was dancing and gaming on this girl in a club on Thursday, when all of a sudden some guy who was probably 6'9 asks her to dance... she declined, and she stayed with me instead... cause he had no game... sure some guys just get lucky, but becoming a pickup artist is about making your own luck | /r/seduction | 11/12/11 06:45 AM |
| 0 | Tall Muscular White Guy Game vs. Short Ethnic Guy GameI know a lot of those, we call them "naturals" , often times the naturals are less intelligent which is why they ignore what is "socially expected" and are successful | /r/seduction | 11/12/11 05:50 AM |
| 4 | Tall Muscular White Guy Game vs. Short Ethnic Guy GameI'm a shortish muscular white guy... and I do have a lot of girls checking me out and hitting on me, and sometimes they are all over me without me using any game one them..... BUT, I still have to compete with guys who are a lot taller and better looking than me, and I can usually outgame them... Looks matter, but game matters WAY more | /r/seduction | 10/12/11 05:53 AM |
| 1 | I have fears of escalating, please helpI'm getting a lot better at escalating (even if I'm unsuccessful, I still try at least)... Its exactly the same as approach anxiety... you just fear rejection, practice and constantly pushing yourself is the only way to get over it | /r/seduction | 09/12/11 10:40 AM |
| 0 | Exuding hormones?does that 2-hour sleep thing work? | /r/seduction | 05/12/11 01:08 AM |
| 4 | How do you cope with jealousy?I really liked this girl from my social circle and thought for sure she liked me too... I was at a party later and was gunna make a move on her, I had some other super hot girl throwing herself at me, but I ignored her advances because I wanted the other girl... but other girl apparently DID NOT like me, and she fucked one of my friends in the bathroom (same party)... I was super jealous, but it eventually gave me a "NEVER AGAIN" motivation to better myself and fix my mistakes | /r/seduction | 04/12/11 07:38 PM |
| 10 | Today is the first day of the rest of my lifedeep | /r/seduction | 03/12/11 08:06 PM |
| 1 | I don't know why this one hit me so hard...I don't know why I was bothered by it, thats why I'm confused. I'm over it now. I think it just hit hard because she seemed into me, and she was one of the first (what I thought before) "girlfriend material" that I've met in a while | /r/seduction | 24/11/11 08:08 AM |
| 1 | I don't know why this one hit me so hard...I literally had another chick who was just as hot and TOTALLY into me there that I EASILY could have... but that was my problem, I was too drunk and mentally fucked up over it for whatever reason and ended up just bitching out and leaving (but I have her number and shit, so I'll fuck her now that my head is clear) | /r/seduction | 24/11/11 08:00 AM |
| 2 | Hi r/seduction, I'm a girl and I need your help 'cause I know my friends will give me crap advice and I ain't got no game!best one a girl ever used on me (at a club) was "can you protect me from the creepy guy over there" (note: obviously there was no creepy guy) | /r/seduction | 11/10/11 09:11 PM |
| 1 | Hi r/seduction, I'm a girl and I need your help 'cause I know my friends will give me crap advice and I ain't got no game!best one a girl ever used on me (at a club) was "can you protect me from the creepy guy over there" (note: obviously there was no creepy guy) | /r/seduction | 11/10/11 09:01 PM |
| 2 | 90 day challenge!Honest opinion... I just got back into 'gaming' and OPENING and WORKING OUT are the two most important parts... once you get that handled, all the rest will seem WAY EASIER | /r/seduction | 06/10/11 05:44 AM |
| 2 | What are some of your catalysts?take out your phone... go to "add new contact"... enter her name/nickname (that you created for her)... then hand her the phone and tell her to put her number in MAKE SURE you've built enough attraction (and ideally some comfort) first and talk to her for a bit afterward. Once you get used to it you can use a 'situational closer' (like a situational opener)... e.g. I picked up a girl on a crowded bus last weekend, she said she was going to a special event downtown, I told her I would text her if… | /r/seduction | 06/10/11 05:39 AM |
| 2 | Alright, Seddit, I'm a nerd.I'm a hardcore nerd, I LOVE science and shit.... but know what EVERYONE thinks I'm COOL AS SHIT... so I wheel something fierce, you can be nerdy and totally badass at the same time | /r/seduction | 05/10/11 09:23 PM |
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