Being more approachable

VMikeL · 2012-08-12T14:29:54+00:00

Why do you assume it's their job? Why not just put the effort in yourself? It's also what you do. If you sit there sipping beer, what are they going to say to you? If you're there socialising, making people laugh, more people will come to you.

nivar · 2012-08-12T16:00:52+00:00

It is your body language that make them avoid you. Find out what you are doing wrong and change it. Look up how to have open body language and practice it. Most important are posture and smile. my 2cents.

budguy68 · 2012-08-12T20:21:43+00:00

usually when i go to bars by myself Ill make like 10-20 apporaches and get rejected thoughout. Later on the night I will end up having chicks opening me up. not the best looking girls but meh better than nothing... Then Ill end up sitting at their table with a group of people. But thoughout the whole night I didn't care about being a part of the group. I was in my own world the entire time. What I am trying to say is that you shouldn't care about being involve in the first place. Also you become more social by being more social. I say research "RSD videos".

About being intimidating/treating vs Not: A good way to tell if you're intimidating or have a treating vibe is to gauge how kids behave around you. Do kids go up and talk to you and do they act playful? Even if a kid looks at you with curiosity that's usually a good thing. Or are kids shy/scared of you and quiet? that might mean you have a intimidating or treating vide.

ThrowawayPUA · 2012-08-12T15:53:10+00:00

To be more approachable, you must approach more people.

Iamcookie9001 · 2012-08-12T23:38:39+00:00

Start dressing nice and get an awesome lifestyle. Also shower and stuff, people are probably avoiding you because you're a grunge.

Finally, just go up to other people and start conversations.

zach84 · 2012-08-13T19:16:01+00:00

"Looking approachable" just comes with confidence. Work on the other stuff, that'll just be a by-product.

Besides, the point is for you to approach other people, not other way around, right?

Xstream2 · 2012-08-12T20:03:42+00:00

MOST people don't approach random people that they don't know. Its THE MOST FUNDAMENTAL part of the game that YOU need to approach people

Title	Being more approachable
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Upvotes	5
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Date	August 12, 2012 2:19 PM UTC (13 years ago)
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