Over the past couple weeks I've encountered this scenario numerous times: We had the date set up for X date then a day or so before they ask for my instagram and once i tell them i don't have one it falls through. These dates are being set up through bumble, etc. Whats the best way to get around this? I think its too late for me to create an insta (I'm in my mid 20's) as I don't have as large of a social circle (followers) that i did in college.

Any advice is appreciated