MMA help game??

MO_drps_knwldg · 2022-05-28T18:10:58+00:00

Taking Muay Thai clases for about a year in total

It’s a game changer for self confidence. You should only do it because you are authentically interested in developing a skill and putting in lots of physically demanding work, not to impress women.

The knowledge that you have the ability to defend yourself in an altercation is both humbling and a huge source of confidence. This means that you respect how dangerous confrontation can be and know that walking away is the best option. However, if someone attacks you or tries to mug you, you can at truly defend yourself.

Codi_Banks · 2022-05-28T21:50:04+00:00

Yes!

Many problems that prevent men from approaching & succeeding with women have to do with confidence. Learning to fight helps with so much. Discipline, routine, fitness, having strong male role models, integrating your aggressive/"bad" side in a healthy way, making friends, taking risks & dealing with whatever the consequences may be, and finally just a general sense of belonging. There are so many deeper lessons to learn from fighting that you'll figure out on your own but one i really want to point out is the relationship you have with a sparring partner will teach you a lot of what it means to have relationships in general.

Trust is so important, and the only way to really display trust is to put yourself in vulnerable positions. You are basically giving another human being permission to hurt you and you have permission to hurt them but you agree not to go "too far". Sometimes you need to figure out on the fly what counts as "too far" but when lines are crossed you HAVE to communicate. Don't let egos get in the way and stop you from speaking up because thats when people get mad and people get hurt bad. When everything is going well, the pain you cause each other is for your own good. Meaning, its to prevent your partner from making mistakes that you know they dont want to make. In return they'll do the same for you. Yes there will be pain but you will both grow from it. If either you or your partner goes too hard/soft, neither of you will grow. But when you get experienced and both of you know what you're doing, its an incredible experience. The most beautiful combination of competition & cooperation. These are the people you will grow the closest to because you'll know each others strengths and weaknesses better than anyone else.

This applies to boxing, jiu jitsu, wrestling, mma, dating, friendships, marriages, etc.

epimpstyle · 2022-05-28T23:47:36+00:00

Grow up, dude!

If you are trying to impress other guys, go to MMA but if you want to impress girls then it is better to take care of yourself by being clean with a nice haircut and nice clothes.

Regarding the fighting, I don't know where you are from but a weak guy might have a gun or a knife.. MMA or any intense physical activity is good for your health. If you are looking for confidence and you are alone, start talking with older people until you can approach girls of the same age as you. If you are with a friend then it is easier to approach girls.

Title	MMA help game??
Author	Danny_nicoletti
Upvotes	2
Comments	3
Date	May 28, 2022 5:18 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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