I used to be into the whole mode 1 thing, but there is one thing I don't agree with and maybe someone could help me calibrate.

the only thing I don't agree about with mode 1 is, how do you know you want to have sex with someone if you don't know yet if they are free of certain stds like genital herpes for example. Before I start telling them what I want to do sexually, I prefer to know weather they are free of genital herpes. There is nothing more akward than doing dirty talk and then all a sudden you have to step back and refuse the whole date because now she just revealed to you she has genital herpes.

I have already rejected a few past women because they told me they had genital herpes. You don't want that, genital herpes is not curable.