So I had a date with this cute girl and we were having a fun time and a deep conversation when she started talking about suicide as if it was funny. I said that I don't want to talk about suicide because this just brings me down and I don't think it's funny. So she apologised and said that she also doesn't think it's funny and that it's because of her ex. She said it's already a long time ago and she doesn't love him anymore but she still can't understand how someone could do this to her. I didn't know what to say. I just didn't want to talk about this anymore so I told her that this guy must have been an idiot for hurting her and whatever happend she didn't deserve this because she's a really nice and honest person from what I could tell so far. She thanked me and wanted to continue with the date but I just couldn't. I told her that it seemed like she isn't ready for a new relationship and that I really don't want to hurt her. So I asked her if we could be friends. After a few seconds of thinking she agreed. She's a really awesome girl and I really liked the first date with her but I just can't do this and I want to remember you that the girls you are often referring to as a "target" or something are human beings with feelings. Please don't hurt people just because of your desires - I feel like I could have continued with escalation and everything but it just wouldn't have been a good thing to do because I'M not sure if I could be with a depressive girl. In the end, it was the best decision both for me and for her.