I think I’ve finally figured out that all I have to do is give a woman a nice, non-creepy complement (I like your shoes, etc) and the door opens to a natural introduction/conversation. I don’t drill them with a ton of questions, but naturally ask questions and later use a callback where appropriate It’s been working quite well and last night the woman I was chatting with asked for MY number and asked when we could hang out. Who knows. She could flake, but TBH I don’t really care. I’m in a flow state. Wish I would have figured this out years ago 🤪