I've been to a bar once for an engagement party, otherwise I'm fairly clueless. I expect girls and conversation.
Since I am going alone, I fear coming across as a creep. Grls will notice I've come with no friends and will avoid.
It's pretty simple - Order a drink and conversate. Avoid cliché compliments, be authentic. I understand how it should be done but it's what they see in me.
The more girls - The harder. The less girls - The easier.
I am looking for a LTR and not a fling.
Table bars: These places proved to be very hostile to me. In a typical table bar, most of the venue is full of tables and people go there to have dinner with their friends. People tend to remain within their own group around their table. There is a small bar area but it’s pretty pointless to stay there, considering that people get a drink and then go back to their own group.
From the moment I entered all the way during the few casual conversations I tried to strike up, I had the clear feeling of not being welcomed. Avoid at all costs, whether you are alone or with your wing man, since people go to table bars to remain all night with their own friends. Nightgamers not welcomed.
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