I really should be going to bed, it's 3:54AM here and I have to wake up at 8 butt fuck it. I'm relatively new to seduction and reading some of the top posts here I started to realize that when people describe an "natural" I felt like I was hearing someone describe my dad. Hopefully this post helps someone.

A few factoids about my dad.

  • He isn't the MOST attractive male, he's 56 years old but he can still pull when he tries. His current girlfriend is really hot for being 50+ years old. When he was young he was extremely strong but not body builder strong he was incredibly ripped and buff not "swole".

  • Short, yea. HE'S SHORT. I'm 6 foot and he's shorter than me at around 5'9"

  • Physically inclined, played multiple sports at a professional level [(Almost got drafted NHL and road professional dirtbikes (Motocross)]

Alright, that's pretty much all you need to know about him. I hope that gives you a vague idea who he is physically. Let's get to his mindset. I'm aware the professional athlete definitely played a part but he can still pull despite not having done any sports in 20-30 years and being overweight now.

Trait #1

Outcome independent. When he raced motocross he constantly had women trying to get with him. He wasn't in his home town much because of travelling but when he did come home he had women begging to be with him. Women have broken into his house in an attempt to get a "piece". He rejected EVERY single one of them, he knew they were only interested in his fame and he wouldn't stand for it. In return they wanted him even more.

Trait #2

He did not give a FUCK. The one story he told me particularly stands out. There was a big event at this like banquet hall for a friend of his, he was invited. This was when he was an "up and coming" in the motocross circuit. The banquet hall was hosted upstairs and you know how normal people show up walk up and start socializing? Yea, that's not my dad. He rode his bike through the doors up the stairs and right into the banquet. I asked him about this wondering what his mindset was and he told me "I just wanted fun, I thought it would be funny. Which it was."

Trait #3

He is humorous, but not in your normal way. His humor is really simple, most of it involves farting through speakers, making up funny nicknames for friends and stories about his friends. I guess you could call it "college" humor its similar to the humor in Animal House. My dad's humor is very black and white. What I mean by that is he doesn't see hidden meaning in things just sees them for what they are. Girl's love him for it though.

Trait #4

He ALWAYS flirts and goes for it. If he sees an attractive women when he's out he will flirt with her. I've gone to restaurants with him and when he sees the hostess he starts flirting. I don't quite understand how he does it but I remember going to this classyish restaurant and he started to flirt with the hostess. The hostess was this super fucking hot 20-25 year old and she was completely infatuated with him. Laughing at his stupid jokes and asking questions about him. I think I am slowly starting to develop a similar skill but its in it's infant stage.

Trait #5

Being a motocross professional definately helped him with women. At one time he owned two corvettes, one for night and one for day. I think what the average joe can learn though is that women are attracted to men that pursue something. Men that have a passion and will do everything in their power to succeed at it. I also think that there's a reason why you see a lot of "naturals" in sports. It's because to be good at a sport you have to develop a certain mindset. A mindset that women find attractive.

Now though he can still pull if he wants to and women STILL love him. Long after the fame, in fact I believe he is in debt at the moment. He still has a few trophies from his glory days but I doubt he's pulling just because he "used to be a professional motocross rider".

There's more traits but I would say those main four at the big ones. If I was to try and dissect why my dad is a natural I think it comes from his I don't give a fuck attitude, social status and his badboy with a soft side personality. One of his friends describes him as a "lovable fuck up". Meaning he always manages to fuck something up or forget an important task in a job but people can't hate him for it. Only love him.

I don't know if when he was young he used be the "life of the party". Possibly, I wouldn't put it past him but he isn't one to entertain people he entertains himself and people just so happen to be entertained by him entertaining himself.

It's funny because as I write this post I sort of see a lot of me in it. I have similar humor and I am just starting to get women interested in me without trying too hard. I'm still outcome dependant and a pussy at escalating but people seem to like me, especially women. Most of my friends at the moment are women. I'm going to continue working on game and I'll report back to see what I learn/find.

The more I think about this post and re-read it's contents I kinda wonder if it will be of any help to seddit. Sort of sounds like I'm bragging and I don't know...whatever I've spend 40 minutes writing it. I can't get that sleep back so I may as well post it.

Hope it helps :)